insincere wrote:
Clinical studies have shown that everybodies health can suffer if they are not fullfillled socialy at some point (Eric Berne M.D., Games People Play). For some that means everyday, others much less but without it you will die. So what does it for you?
I think for me simply by reduction, all I have left nowdays is my golf game. The one guy in town that can out drive me is 6'6" and he has an advantage on me that I cannot compete with. I rarely get any credit cause my short game is usually lousy but nobody can argue that I hit the deepest
Sounds like you're connecting "social fulfillment" to a social situation that you are dominant at. Getting one up on people is good for an ego boost, but I don't see how that leads to "social fulfillment". I assumed that when people like Eric Berne talk about this, they mean having social contact where you are valued for your person, not just feeling good rubbing everybody elses noses in it by hitting a little ball further than they can.
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