What is your relationship status?

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What is your relationship status?
Single and Looking 23%  23%  [ 90 ]
Single and Looking 23%  23%  [ 90 ]
Single, not Looking 12%  12%  [ 48 ]
Single, not Looking 12%  12%  [ 48 ]
Married 5%  5%  [ 18 ]
Married 5%  5%  [ 18 ]
Engaged 1%  1%  [ 2 ]
Engaged 1%  1%  [ 2 ]
de facto 0%  0%  [ 1 ]
de facto 0%  0%  [ 1 ]
Long term relationship 5%  5%  [ 19 ]
Long term relationship 5%  5%  [ 20 ]
swinger 1%  1%  [ 2 ]
swinger 1%  1%  [ 2 ]
single, but have sex 2%  2%  [ 6 ]
single, but have sex 2%  2%  [ 6 ]
Internet Relationship 2%  2%  [ 9 ]
Internet Relationship 2%  2%  [ 9 ]
Long distance relationship (not internet) 1%  1%  [ 4 ]
Long distance relationship (not internet) 1%  1%  [ 5 ]
Total votes : 400

sociable_hermit
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11 Sep 2006, 7:50 am

I'm single.

Not sure whether to look for anyone else - I seem good at spoiling the lives of really nice girls by being moody, complicated, depressed, insular and generally an Aspie :(

Too many problems of my own which need to be addressed first, somehow... if I can.

BUT I know two girls who are adorable. One isn't interested, one might be. And if I don't say something soon, it might be too late.

Tricky, huh?


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17 Sep 2006, 2:11 pm

I have had two girlfriends, both of whom were NTs. I've been single for a few months now, but I'm thinking of going out again. I have my eye on a few girls who I might ask out to the back-to-school dance in a couple of weeks.



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17 Sep 2006, 8:03 pm

Single and looking.



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21 Oct 2006, 2:07 pm

Engaged and happy. I've never, ever met anybody who understood how life is like she does. She knows the inside of my head better than I do, and loves me for it as much as I love her for everything she is. Life's a bit up and down right now, but she's my rock.



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21 Oct 2006, 2:17 pm

Single and looking here. I have had a few people interested in me, but not sure if I really want to date any of them. I tend to be a little picky about who I date--because I don't want to be in a realtionship in which I would be miserable. I want someone who I can see myself spending the rest of my life with.

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21 Oct 2006, 3:17 pm

The novelty of being single and having my own space has suddenly worn off, and now I'm feeling very lonely and a bit depressed.

I try to do my best in life, but sometimes it seems like no-one ever notices :(


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21 Oct 2006, 5:34 pm

I have a guy, and so much love for him, though he is far away.



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21 Oct 2006, 8:57 pm

Just had a girlfirend, now I doubt I'll want one again for quite some time



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22 Oct 2006, 4:12 am

I don't know what to call my relationship...

Very passionate, very strong, but every time she spends 1 day away from me, she abuses the s**t out of me, vanishes for 3-4 days, then comes back acting all nice... I'm trying to forget about her, but she's the only person I can actually get along with (I don't know why) I don't have a clue what to do..

Sorry for whining I'm sure there are much bigger problems going on.


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22 Oct 2006, 4:47 am

Sounds pretty serious to me! What happens if you mention this at a time when she is calm?


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22 Oct 2006, 6:13 am

I am dying to know how many aspies married are woman or are rich. It could tell us a lot



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22 Oct 2006, 6:40 am

I was married for 12 years. I'm spiritually rich. I make enough money that I can save $3600 a year. Does that count?

My neighbor wishes he made 60, 80, 100k a year so he could just buy whatever he wants without thinking about it. Kinda turns me off.


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22 Oct 2006, 6:44 am

Single and Looking.



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22 Oct 2006, 12:57 pm

"Sounds pretty serious to me! What happens if you mention this at a time when she is calm?"


Spoke to her calmly, we talked on the phone for hours (never have been able to talk on the phone for more than a minute with someone) and we even decided on a way to work together :)

I explained to her exactly why the meltdowns happen, and we worked out a way so that she's not right with me when it happens... The beautiful thing is she is VERY independant, so we only wanna hang out like once or twice a week, she is very social otherwise, and I spend the rest of my time alone..

I've had too many girlfriends, every single one ended in intense fights over a period of a month, to months, and this is the first girl that hung around after a few meltdowns, I knew she was something special after being able to tolerate something like that.

Though its been VERY hard for both of us, and I nearly blocked her out entirely, we worked it out through communication, through the phone, HONESTY being most important.

I think being yourself is the most important thing, if you can be confident at what you do, you can inspire someone, if you can inspire someone, they may be able to love you..

Well thats my experience anyhow


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22 Oct 2006, 3:14 pm

I was recently very politely rejected, but I'm really hoping the girl I asked out changes her mind. It's unlikely, but it could happen.



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22 Oct 2006, 5:12 pm

Scintillate - I'm glad you both managed to work things out, and I agree with what you're saying on the communications and honesty front.


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