Hale, it's different because your father/mother can force you to do it, rather than finding the self-motivation to get past the sensitivity. Like treating my hair for it's dandruff, it's hard to find the self-determination/motivation to do it, but it's a lot bloody easier for my mum to do it, even though I'll scream and cry about it while she does it.
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