Seeing things from the other person's 'point of view' . . .
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Good point. The italicized part reminded me of something I studied recently: one of the "reasons" for stigmatization of certain groups is a lack of identification with these groups by the "majority." In other words, a member of the "majority" does not want to be seen as anything like a member of the stigmatized group, so he/she creates a huge "social distance" from "stigmatized" individuals. As a result, a "majority group" individual has made it impossible to imagine what it is like for a "stigmatized" individual because to do so would create a risk of becoming like them.
I discussed this concept in regards to discrimination against the mentally ill, but it can apply to any "minority" group.
Kind of off-topic, but just thought I'd mention it.
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I found this study very interesting:
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/20 ... 113108.htm
The trend was even more pronounced for participants who scored high on a test measuring subtle racism, says Gutsell.
"The so-called mirror-neuron-system is thought to be an important building block for empathy by allowing people to 'mirror' other people's actions and emotions; our research indicates that this basic building block is less reactive to people who belong to a different race than you," says Inzlicht.
However, the team says cognitive perspective taking exercises, for example, can increase empathy and understanding, thereby offering hope to reduce prejudice. Gutsell and Inzlicht are now investigating if this form of perspective-taking can have measurable effects in the brain.
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http://www.autismcoach.com/Mirror%20Neuron%20Theory.htm
Thankyou for that - it was really interesting. It seems to make a lot of sense, especially the part in which the author says that the only way to teach her autistic son things is to make him do them himself.
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This is very true, I think . . . though in my case it is quite a lengthy process.
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I didn't get this at all when I was young, mostly because I didn't get the concept of "point of view". Why should two people look at the same thing and see it differently. It is what it is, where I'm standing doesn't change it in any way. I eventually learned about psychology and how people's biases and prior experiences could affect their senses. I also learned that most people were heavily influenced by others around them without them being aware of this. I actually felt a bit sorry for them when I figured this out. "Those poor people, they're just doing stuff because everyone else is doing the same thing, they're like little sheep." As I've gotten older, I've taught myself to be open-minded, and remind myself that not everyone sees the world in the same way. We have different worldviews, different religions, different experiences, different genetics. It is really an intellectual exercise for me. I simply learn facts about a person, apply my knowledge of human behavior, and then their behavior makes more sense.
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