Willard wrote:
A lot of people your age don't even have a family that cares enough to sit down and eat with them every day - that's more valuable than you may realize.
And a lot, if not most, of that is caused by us westerners. Just so you know.
Which to me means that it's not actually that valuable.
Sure, we all know how to sit at dinner tables properly, but if it matters so much, why are we not out there helping those that don't?
Simple logic.
My [big] family [i.e not just parents] are pretty much pikeys that live in houses rather than caravans. We all have TV dinners and only ever sit at the table on christmas/boxing day/when there's visitors/when we're at a restaurant.
That said, even at christmas/boxing day in my nans house people are sat on the sofa. There's just too many of us when we're all gathered to be able to have a proper dinner-table-meal, unless the table is huge enough to fit;
Nan + Grandad
2x aunties + one girlfriend
4x uncles
6x cousins [5 below 10yrs] + me
mum + Stepdad
round a single table. And that's only the close family. On one side. So I can understand why people just don't bother anymore.
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