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29 May 2011, 2:26 am

Even if your relationship is over, you need to know it is not healthy to be that invasive and controlling, it will drive anyone away in time.
People that want to cheat cannot be stopped, you have to learn to trust, and not cross boundaries.



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30 May 2011, 6:34 pm

i did wonder what happened with this. sadly predictable:(



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08 Jun 2011, 1:42 am

If you can believe it, we still haven't broken up yet. I did tell her though, that Marriage was off the table, so I imagine our breakup is just a matter of time.



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30 Aug 2011, 2:26 am

We broke up about 3 Nights ago.



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30 Aug 2011, 8:00 am

Good for her! Don't get into another relationship until you get your urge to spy under control, which would include building up your own self esteem, get some help.



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30 Aug 2011, 7:11 pm

backagain wrote:
Good for her! Don't get into another relationship until you get your urge to spy under control, which would include building up your own self esteem, get some help.


or find someone trustworthy?



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30 Aug 2011, 7:21 pm

I am trustworthy, and the first time some guy in my life was checking on what I chatted about, or checked my phone, or anything like spying, I would boot his sorry ass. It's sick, and from what I read, the chat stuff wasn't even a big deal. So you violated her privacy by reading it, then violated it even more by posting the actual stuff on here. Hate to think of the creepy spying stuff you did that you didn't mention on here. Obsessively check her phone? Follow her? Check her panties when she came home?




Seriously, OP you need to get a grip on yourself before you try it again. No on you have in your life is going to avoid talking to other people because you might freak out and assume the worst. It's a self esteem issue, in addition to lack of self control and respect for boundaries, and it makes you sound NUTS.



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31 Aug 2011, 7:35 am

Thanks for your opinion, backagain, but I'll go with OneStepBeyond's advice.