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25 Jul 2010, 4:30 pm

Hey,

So I got dumped by my g/f of just over a year and a half because I am 'emotionally thick'...

Anybody got any tips on how to be less 'thick'?

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25 Jul 2010, 4:53 pm

no we all are emotionally thick, Ive not found anything makes a difference to that. You need to find someone more tollerant and more forgiving.

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25 Jul 2010, 7:02 pm

Can you elaborate on being "emotionally thick" :?:

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25 Jul 2010, 7:07 pm

I don't even know what that means.

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25 Jul 2010, 8:28 pm

I think it translates to not being NT or a mind reader...

Tbh... I dont think it was to do with AS at all, We spent the day together prior where she was silent the whole time. I figured something was wrong and asked what was up, several times thoughout the day and all I got was 'nothing is wrong' - clearly there was

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25 Jul 2010, 9:17 pm

Celeritas wrote:

That's pretty standard with NT women. Lots of NT guys complain about how women say they are fine when they are not & then get mad at em over it. The problem is us males do NOT understand reverse psychology

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25 Jul 2010, 9:26 pm

or she has her eyes set on another guy........

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25 Jul 2010, 9:28 pm

Ah well, what can you do. If she's not happy in the relationship, maybe you aren't so great a match after all. Find someone better for you.

It couldn't hurt to examine what went wrong just in case there is something you can learn from the experience, though.

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26 Jul 2010, 10:48 pm

lotusblossom wrote:

no we all are emotionally thick, Ive not found anything makes a difference to that. You need to find someone more tollerant and more forgiving.

Listen to lotus.
You will just make yourself miserable if you try to 'change'.

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