Apparentlt there was a wrong answer

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07 Aug 2010, 10:39 pm

Totally agree with you. I'm so sick of "love" it's not even funny. I think my standards have changed from "a girl that understands me" to "a girl that knows to shut up and get out of my life the next day".


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07 Aug 2010, 11:05 pm

BigK wrote:
It was the right answer. You just don't like the consequences.

It is only the wrong answer if your goal was to lie to get to get fun and free sex.

If that is your game then you need to be a bit more cold and cynical about it

Otherwise you are better off looking for someone who thinks the way that you do.
That way you can have all the fun, sex, good times you like with out worrying that your partner wants you married with kids within the year.


WIN. honesty isn't wrong. it's just that it may not get you what you want.



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08 Aug 2010, 9:32 am

Maybe she had crappy relationships in the past and was using this as a test. It was a stupid question but sometimes we girls will do and say stupid things just to keep us from getting hurt. It sounds like she needs to get her act together before she would be able to be in any form of relationship. That's just my opinion though. :)



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08 Aug 2010, 9:34 am

hyperlexian wrote:
BigK wrote:
It was the right answer. You just don't like the consequences.

It is only the wrong answer if your goal was to lie to get to get fun and free sex.

If that is your game then you need to be a bit more cold and cynical about it

Otherwise you are better off looking for someone who thinks the way that you do.
That way you can have all the fun, sex, good times you like with out worrying that your partner wants you married with kids within the year.


WIN. honesty isn't wrong. it's just that it may not get you what you want.

Kudos to both of you! :thumleft:



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08 Aug 2010, 9:48 am

Tiggurix wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
BigK wrote:
It was the right answer. You just don't like the consequences.

It is only the wrong answer if your goal was to lie to get to get fun and free sex.

If that is your game then you need to be a bit more cold and cynical about it

Otherwise you are better off looking for someone who thinks the way that you do.
That way you can have all the fun, sex, good times you like with out worrying that your partner wants you married with kids within the year.


WIN. honesty isn't wrong. it's just that it may not get you what you want.

Kudos to both of you! :thumleft:


I completely agree. She may not be looking for someone to just "have fun" with, but for something more serious. OP, you'd just need a different woman who felt more in line with how you feel. Lying is a shitty way to get what you want - I wouldn't resort to it. Her question didn't seem tricky and your answer wasn't wrong. She probably just doesn't want to feel used.