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emlion
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03 Nov 2010, 6:55 am

Yeah I know I shouldn't rely on him as much but it's getting worked on.
Just taking a little while.



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03 Nov 2010, 8:53 pm

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i wish you would enroll in a martial arts class so you could show them abusers what for.


I completely agree. I studied martial arts and can say it makes a huge difference. Maybe you could consider it?

Hang in there, emilion. You're not ugly and I've seen you around on the forum, you seem very cool! You know, people like that are just projecting their own lack of self worth on you. People who are kind, loving and confident don't talk to others like that. There is no need.



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04 Nov 2010, 7:01 am

I maybe could. My boyf thinks it'd be a good confidence booster. :)

I'm having a good day today so none of that stuff is bothering me for now. :3



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09 Nov 2010, 4:01 am

first off this is not your fault...secondly there is a book you need to read
"What smart women know" It is an easy read on all the tricks of men and how to avoid these types.

Secondly you need to see a psycholigist that specailizes in sexual abuse. Not just any therapist will have the experience to do this without making things worse

other than that...you deserve better than to be treated like that


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12 Nov 2010, 8:02 pm

Another man hurt me today.
I'm still convinced it's my fault they hurt me. Why else would it keep happening?



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21 Nov 2010, 3:30 am

auntblabby wrote:
i wish you would enroll in a martial arts class so you could show them abusers what for.


Along with martial arts I would also go to a place like Gold's Gym or Planet Fitness and pump iron. it not only builds up your muscles it also builds up your self esteem.


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