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ApsieGuy
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29 Nov 2010, 10:37 pm

People here and in real life think im a douche....although some of you think im a troll



Anyone else come off this way?



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29 Nov 2010, 10:43 pm

I think so. It has to do with how I appear though, more than how I speak.



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29 Nov 2010, 10:44 pm

People say I am "standoffish".



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29 Nov 2010, 10:59 pm

If I come off as something "douche" isn't it.



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29 Nov 2010, 11:03 pm

One more thing, how many of you like me hate or hate me here.



I try not to be a douche. I get all bitter when I dont get what I want...childish.


For example, there were a few women I liked on these forums due to their personalities. They obviously were not interested....I felt rejected and then claimed their standards were too high.


You know who you are :cry:

I mean I am not a bad looking guy and im built.......



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29 Nov 2010, 11:20 pm

Seriously?

Stop focusing on your looks. Stop focusing on what (you think) women want. Instead, work on discovering who you are and work on liking yourself. A relationship may or may not come after that, but if you know who you are and if you're content with what you have, how other people--women or otherwise--perceive you won't even matter.



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29 Nov 2010, 11:21 pm

I've only been on this forum a couple of days - and I have to say that your very last sentence makes you come off as a DB.

In a real relationship, looks are secondary to personality.



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29 Nov 2010, 11:48 pm

Trazy wrote:
I've only been on this forum a couple of days - and I have to say that your very last sentence makes you come off as a DB.

In a real relationship, looks are secondary to personality.



money/looks are good for first impressions.



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29 Nov 2010, 11:53 pm

I'm not going to say what I think of you because I'll probably get banned. Its not a douche though, a troll, sort of.



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30 Nov 2010, 12:20 am

ApsieGuy wrote:
money/looks are good for first impressions.


Nope. It's all about how you carry yourself.



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30 Nov 2010, 12:25 am

I've not been told that i'm a douche.
I've been told that i am distant and sometimes short with people, but the general impression i send out is friendly.



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30 Nov 2010, 1:03 am

Maybe. Some think I am a troll, some think I am a fake, some think I am rude or sensitive, some think I am a b***h, some think I am stupid. I have never been called a douche though.


What does DB stand for btw? Anyone know?


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30 Nov 2010, 1:22 am

"douchebag" (noun):
Someone who has surpassed the levels of jerk and as*hole, however not yet reached f****r or Motherf***er. Not to be confuzed with douche.

source: UrbanDictionary



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30 Nov 2010, 3:19 am

League_Girl wrote:
Maybe. Some think I am a troll, some think I am a fake, some think I am rude or sensitive, some think I am a b***h, some think I am stupid. I have never been called a douche though.


What does DB stand for btw? Anyone know?


It's something women used to use to clean their vaginas.
Spell check is telling me the proper grammar is vaginae lol.


In real life most people think I'm frigid and disconnected I'd say. And strange. Some people occasionally seem to take my lack of emotional connection as me ignoring them. Luckily not a douche though thank gods.



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30 Nov 2010, 3:20 am

I've never been told that. I've been told that I'm too nice.


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30 Nov 2010, 4:26 am

I rarely get called that, usually I get called a dick or an as*hole.

I view it this way though, since my name is richard and the nickname for richard is dick... well I have a name to live up to XD


plus I think I come across as one more than you aspieguy. Well... any opinions on me anyone?


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