Xenu wrote:
Weiss_Yohji wrote:
I've been depressed since this past Friday night, when I saw this one couple doing some massive PDAs at work. Why the hell must I be reminded of what I don't have?
On and off I felt like I wanted to cry for the past couple of days. I need sex and a relationship far more than they do, but I'm so scared to go and get it. What does it take to get the happiness I need?
First off, it's not easy to get a girlfriend. And even harder to keep one. It takes a lot of work on both parts so you need to be ready for that. Second, why don't you actually try and put yourself out there to girls you are interested in? Yes I know it's incredibly hard, and can make you anxious/scared to the point of nausea but girls like it when a guy shows initiative so you kind of just have to force yourself to do it.
And also 3rd, not trying to sound rude but why do you say that you need sex and a relationship more than other people do? I mean it sounds kind of conceited. Just because you have a disability or depression doesn't just automatically mean you should get whatever you want including a girlfriend. Also having a girlfriend doesn't automatically make everything better. Sure it feels great to have one and you might be a lot happier. But it's also a lot of work to keep a good relationship going no matter how well you two click. So you can't just think that having a girlfriend will fix all of life's problems.
Where I live is more of a party location during the summer months (Less so the rest of the year), and during the rest of the year things are pretty slow. I've never been what you'd call a partier. I fill my life with anime, books (Mostly manga and various nonfiction stuff), video games, and music that nobody around here has heard of. And I don't drink. As for church, well, I'm an outspoken, dyed-in-the-wool atheist and wouldn't appreciate someone trying to convert me.
27 Dec 2010, 2:16 am
