It's not Men or Women aspies who have it easier in dating

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31 Dec 2010, 11:17 am

I get tired of these Men vs Female aspie rants. You know who has it the easiest? BI-sexual aspies(the label applies to both men and women).

See bi-sexual aspies can date both male and females alike. Hence, the probability of a bi-sexual getting a girlfriend/boyfriend is double the chances of a straight aspie getting one.

Enough of the male vs female. We need to be debating about straight vs bi-sexual aspies.

That is all

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31 Dec 2010, 11:50 am

I don't think we need to debate and blame on who has it easier
everyone faces their own set of problems
bisexuals might not have it easier due to bigotry towards same sex couples

you lose

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31 Dec 2010, 11:53 am

ROFL, true story. Bisexual women have it easier than bisexual men...which means men lose again.

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31 Dec 2010, 12:19 pm

Pistonhead wrote:

ROFL, true story. Bisexual women have it easier than bisexual men...which means men lose again.

Well, I was hoping everyone would just laugh and realizing that I am just joking around because it's a waste of time to debate who has it easier.

However, no one picked up on that....

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31 Dec 2010, 12:24 pm

:roll:

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31 Dec 2010, 12:40 pm

emlion wrote:

:roll:

I am trying to be funny.....and failing at that too. Wow, I fail at crap.

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31 Dec 2010, 1:06 pm

I don't see why it matters? I'd be more interested in the similar & different issues male vs. female aspies have when comes to dating & same thing for straight vs. bisexual, etc.

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31 Dec 2010, 1:52 pm

Double the chances? Only if everyone was bisexual.

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31 Dec 2010, 6:27 pm

I would have thought it would be just as hard. Fancy having a crush on someone the same sex who is a closet homophobe?

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31 Dec 2010, 6:33 pm

Instead of getting concerned over generalizations, I say we find the one specific individual who has it the easiest time dating and go beat that person up. :lol:

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31 Dec 2010, 6:41 pm

^ I agree. I've just finished having a go at someone on youtube for saying I don't have aspergers because I am able to "make an effort with my appearance" and "seem social"

God people can be as stupid as f*ck, It's no wonder our species is screwed.

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31 Dec 2010, 6:54 pm

hale_bopp wrote:

I would have thought it would be just as hard. Fancy having a crush on someone the same sex who is a closet homophobe?

Yes, and also, most people are straight. So even if you have some same-sex attraction, it's not going to be shared a lot of the time. You can go deliberately looking for SS partners, but that's going fishing in a smaller pool, so it doesn't necessarily double your chances.

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31 Dec 2010, 6:59 pm

hale_bopp wrote:

Oh. my. gawd.... :roll:

no...f*cking...comment on that abject stupidity from the YouTube peanut gallery.

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31 Dec 2010, 7:23 pm

hale_bopp wrote:

Yep, those are the only defining characteristics of aspergers....WHAT THE HECK.

Well, it makes me feel better to know there are people out there dumber than me. I guess that means less competition when I try to get into business school. Of course, those people probably aren't trying to get in like I am anyway...

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31 Dec 2010, 11:03 pm

"They make it look so easy, connecting with another human being. It's like no one told them it's the hardest thing in the world."

Humans are strange all around, I need to somehow deal with that.

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01 Jan 2011, 2:50 am

hale_bopp wrote:

What's really sad is I've probably heard something just as stupid today :roll:

That's awful what they said though...people can just be so ignorant.

And OP, if it helps I did get the joke :lol:

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