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01 Jan 2011, 8:54 pm

I work in a hospital full of doctors and nurses. One common trend I notice among the ugly/average nurses that they don't seem to grasp is that you NEED to be good looking in order to marry an ugly/average doctor. Yes, there are exceptions. However, chances are, if someone works their ass off to make a good income, they are going to expect something nice to look at after-wards.



Why don't most women grasp this?



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01 Jan 2011, 8:58 pm

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Why don't most women grasp this?

Probably for the same rezone lots of broke guys don't grasp that they need to have a good income to get a really hot girl


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01 Jan 2011, 8:59 pm

ApsieGuy wrote:
I work in a hospital full of doctors and nurses. ...


that's one hell of a strange hospital;)


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01 Jan 2011, 9:00 pm

ApsieGuy wrote:
...they are going to expect something nice to look at after-wards.


They should buy a painting than. Or a cat. Or something.

As for the rest, your insight into how other people feel and think or what they want is absolutely abismal 8O. Or you're just trolling.


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01 Jan 2011, 9:02 pm

Sallamandrina wrote:
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...they are going to expect something nice to look at after-wards.


They should buy a painting than. Or a cat. Or something.

As for the rest, your insight into how other people feel and think or what they want is absolutely abismal 8O. Or you're just trolling.


He's trolling.



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01 Jan 2011, 9:10 pm

nick007 wrote:
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Why don't most women grasp this?

Probably for the same rezone lots of broke guys don't grasp that they need to have a good income to get a really hot girl



I think most guys get this.........unless you are a total moron.



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01 Jan 2011, 9:14 pm

bucephalus wrote:
ApsieGuy wrote:
I work in a hospital full of doctors and nurses. ...


that's one hell of a strange hospital;)


That gave me a laugh.


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01 Jan 2011, 9:19 pm

nick007 wrote:
Probably for the same rezone lots of broke guys don't grasp that they need to have a good income to get a really hot girl


I thought women wanted independence and equality! Women have more jobs today, they make their own money, they can spend their own.



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01 Jan 2011, 9:22 pm

Sallamandrina wrote:
ApsieGuy wrote:
...they are going to expect something nice to look at after-wards.


They should buy a painting than. Or a cat. Or something.

As for the rest, your insight into how other people feel and think or what they want is absolutely abismal 8O. Or you're just trolling.


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01 Jan 2011, 9:49 pm

ApsieGuy wrote:
nick007 wrote:
ApsieGuy wrote:
Why don't most women grasp this?

Probably for the same rezone lots of broke guys don't grasp that they need to have a good income to get a really hot girl



I think most guys get this.........unless you are a total moron.

I've seen lots of guys who don't


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Probably for the same rezone lots of broke guys don't grasp that they need to have a good income to get a really hot girl


I thought women wanted independence and equality! Women have more jobs today, they make their own money, they can spend their own.

Lots do but the thing is that socially it is expected that men pay more maybe because women tend to make 25cents less on every dollar that a man makes. I've known lots of women who say that it gets very awkward when women pay for the men. Some men feel emasculated or the women don't like the odd looks & the comments other women make. Some women like doing thigns like traveling & they don't want or cant afford to pay for the man's way so if the man makes less the women cant travel the way they want


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01 Jan 2011, 9:50 pm

ApsieGuy wrote:
I work in a hospital full of doctors and nurses. One common trend I notice among the ugly/average nurses that they don't seem to grasp is that you NEED to be good looking in order to marry an ugly/average doctor. Yes, there are exceptions. However, chances are, if someone works their ass off to make a good income, they are going to expect something nice to look at after-wards.



Why don't most women grasp this?


In my field, the salaries are similar to that of doctors and I don't see an excess of ugly/average guys dating particularly good looking women....average women yes, "hot" not particularly.

Any such bias in the medical field is probably more likely due to that fact that the title of doctor has prestige attached to it, and in my experience, that's 50% of why some people go to medical school. Most doctors I know on a non-doctor/patient basis are somewhat arrogant, including the ones in my family.

In contrast, most people in my field are rather humble.



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01 Jan 2011, 9:51 pm

I guess it's the same here in the UK, where women get 25p less on every pound! :lol:



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01 Jan 2011, 9:56 pm

Chronos wrote:
ApsieGuy wrote:
I work in a hospital full of doctors and nurses. One common trend I notice among the ugly/average nurses that they don't seem to grasp is that you NEED to be good looking in order to marry an ugly/average doctor. Yes, there are exceptions. However, chances are, if someone works their ass off to make a good income, they are going to expect something nice to look at after-wards.



Why don't most women grasp this?


In my field, the salaries are similar to that of doctors and I don't see an excess of ugly/average guys dating particularly good looking women....average women yes, "hot" not particularly.

Any such bias in the medical field is probably more likely due to that fact that the title of doctor has prestige attached to it, and in my experience, that's 50% of why some people go to medical school. Most doctors I know on a non-doctor/patient basis are somewhat arrogant, including the ones in my family.

In contrast, most people in my field are rather humble.


It's not like that in my area. The health care system in my state has been having their budgets slashed for the last few years & lots of people who recently graduated from nursing cant get jobs because of a hiring freeze. One of my cousin's a nurse & she was one of the last the hospital hired & that was a couple years ago. The doctors are still making mega bux thou. My dad works in construction & most of the people building houses here are docs & those houses are all costing over 5million; some are about 8mil. Sense only the rich people like docs are building; construction is cheaper than it was a few years ago


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01 Jan 2011, 9:58 pm

My brother is a doctor and his wife is average looking and obese. He is average looking and in shape. Not everyone chooses style over substance.



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01 Jan 2011, 10:22 pm

No, wait, I've seen this brick wall before.



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01 Jan 2011, 10:38 pm

menintights wrote:
No, wait, I've seen this brick wall before.
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