Any unmarried female aspies 40-55 years old?

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NickfromCali
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04 Jan 2011, 11:30 pm

Just curious if there ARE any that fit that description in the United States. I'm guessing no.



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04 Jan 2011, 11:33 pm

For starters, there's my aunt.



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04 Jan 2011, 11:43 pm

I believe -15 is under the age of consent.



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04 Jan 2011, 11:52 pm

I'd like to hear from WOMEN, if you please....



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05 Jan 2011, 1:39 am

40, female, diagnosed officially this year, and most significant relationship so far is with a turtle. So, yes, there are unmarried female aspies 40-55 years of age living in the United States.



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05 Jan 2011, 2:38 am

Yeah, am here. Not on the market. (Been there, done that.)

The age of consent varies from state to state in the USA, so yeah, under 16 just misses. Alabama 16 Alaska 16 Arizona 18 Arkansas 16 California 18 Colorado 17 Connecticut 16 D.C. 16 Delaware 18 Florida 18 Georgia 16 Hawaii 16 Idaho 18 Illinois 17 Indiana 16 Iowa 16 Kansas 16 Kentucky 16 Louisiana 17 Maine 16 Maryland 16 Massachusetts 16 Michigan 16 Minnesota 16 Mississippi 16 Missouri 17 Montana 16 Nebraska 17 Nevada 16 New Hampshire 16 New Jersey 16 New Mexico 17 New York 17 North Carolina 16 North Dakota 18 Ohio 16 Oklahoma 16 Oregon 18 Pennsylvania 16 Rhode Island 16 South Carolina 16 South Dakota 16 Tennessee 18 Texas 17 Utah 18 Vermont 16 Virginia 18 Washington 16 West Virginia 16 Wisconsin 18 Wyoming 18

Aspie. Does it show? :wink:



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05 Jan 2011, 2:50 am

Nan wrote:
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Aspie. Does it show? :wink:

:lol: :lol:

I tend to set 20 as my lower limit then i'm pretty morally safe. globally. And no, I'm not an unmarried female aspie between 40-55. However, I would image ****loads exist



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05 Jan 2011, 10:41 am

Nan wrote:
The age of consent varies from state to state in the USA, so yeah, under 16 just misses.:


I was saying that 40-55 is under the age of consent because 40-55=-15 :lol:



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05 Jan 2011, 10:00 pm

NickfromCali wrote:
I'd like to hear from WOMEN, if you please....



Hate to be a jerk, but responses like this might be one of the reasons you are single....... :lol:



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05 Jan 2011, 10:22 pm

The irony



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05 Jan 2011, 11:18 pm

Why are you asking the question, and why would you guess no?

I'm one. I've had two long term relationships -- the last one ended recently.



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06 Jan 2011, 12:59 am

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Why are you asking the question, and why would you guess no?

I'm one. I've had two long term relationships -- the last one ended recently.


Most people age 40-55 grew up BEFORE Asperger's diagnosis in children was commonplace. I have had trouble finding a diagnosis, much less therapy.

I have never had a romantic relationship. Unless you can say the same thing at my age you have NOT walked a mile in my shoes.

I'm also sure that most Asperger's people age 40-55 have been (Mis?)diagnosed with depression and given meds that make one gain weight like I have, therefore making you unappealing to the opposite (or if you are that way, same) sex.



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06 Jan 2011, 1:05 am

There will be loads of aspies that age who've never had a relationship



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06 Jan 2011, 1:10 am

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Most people age 40-55 grew up BEFORE Asperger's diagnosis in children was commonplace. I have had trouble finding a diagnosis, much less therapy.

I have never had a romantic relationship. Unless you can say the same thing at my age you have NOT walked a mile in my shoes.

I'm also sure that most Asperger's people age 40-55 have been (Mis?)diagnosed with depression and given meds that make one gain weight like I have, therefore making you unappealing to the opposite (or if you are that way, same) sex.


You attitude or your experience isn't original. Next.



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06 Jan 2011, 1:07 pm

menintights wrote:
For starters, there's my aunt.


And my aunt, and my mom...



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06 Jan 2011, 7:13 pm

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Most people age 40-55 grew up BEFORE Asperger's diagnosis in children was commonplace. I have had trouble finding a diagnosis, much less therapy.

I have never had a romantic relationship. Unless you can say the same thing at my age you have NOT walked a mile in my shoes.

I'm also sure that most Asperger's people age 40-55 have been (Mis?)diagnosed with depression and given meds that make one gain weight like I have, therefore making you unappealing to the opposite (or if you are that way, same) sex.


You attitude or your experience isn't original. Next.


I would LOVE to hear from ANYONE 40+ who has never been in a romantic relationship. Chances are there's something else BESIDES Asperger's or being extremely picky that stood in the way.