ruveyn wrote:
iamnotaparakeet wrote:
Not all borrowing, but when it is borrowing money which one has no certainty of being able to pay back - that is what I personally would be against.
Any kind of borrowing carries a risk. Some borrowing is less risky than other borrowings. A lender knows (or should) know the risk he is taking when he lends money.
The risks of borrowing and the risks of lending are not the same, recourse for each party is also different, and the two -- borrowing and lending -- have just become confused.
Here is where this discussion began:
"The rich rule over the poor, and the borrower is slave to the lender."
Just a few years ago, my wife and I entered into a mortgage or "death grip" that anyone, including us, could see we would never be able to live and work for long enough to ultimately repay. The loan was one of those sub-prime, high-interest ones written just under a decade ago. At the time, I only entered into that arrangement because my sons-in-law and I had a plan for either or both of them to eventually take it over ... but that never came to pass. So, and when unable to pay after just a few years, my wife and I just "walked away".
That proverb stands as a warning to borrowers: "The rich rule over the poor, and the borrower is slave to the lender." Our lender could not have possibly not known the distinct possibility of our eventual defaulting on the loan, but that lender also knew its recourse could/would easily overwhelm our own.
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