Would anyone here attempt to date another WPer?

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Jonsi
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16 Jan 2011, 9:39 pm

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I just wanna change my answer to 'I wouldn't date anyone right now.' :\


OMG, what happened? :(
The love of my life died yesterday night. I still feel very much attached.



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16 Jan 2011, 10:08 pm

Jonsi wrote:
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I just wanna change my answer to 'I wouldn't date anyone right now.' :\


OMG, what happened? :(
The love of my life died yesterday night. I still feel very much attached.


That's awful :(

You'll certainly be in my thoughts, and I'm sure a lot of other people here feel the same.

It sounds like it was sudden, that's the worst...



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16 Jan 2011, 10:29 pm

Jonsi wrote:
Grisha wrote:
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I just wanna change my answer to 'I wouldn't date anyone right now.' :\


OMG, what happened? :(
The love of my life died yesterday night. I still feel very much attached.


oh no, that's so awful! I am so sorry Jonsi.


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16 Jan 2011, 10:34 pm

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I'm just curious to know if it ever happens, and I also have a confession:

I tried it, twice.

I liked their posts and knew enough about them to know that it might be worth exploring.

I sent a totally polite PM: very preliminary, respectful, absolutely sincere - and nothing even remotely suggestive, much less overtly sexual.

In both cases I was astonished by the ferocity of the reply - to paraphrase a little bit:

"LISTEN, IF YOU'RE LOOKING FOR A HOOK-UP, YOUR CHANCES ARE ZERO - GOT IT?"

I'm not exaggerating at all, you would have thought I wrote: "Hey baby, wanna f*ck? :twisted: "

This happened almost exactly the same way, twice! Naturally I didn't attempt it again...

Is this this typical of Aspie females?


Grisha,

Happy New Year! How is Southern California doing?

I have always maintained the contention that the most interesting animal is the human animal as people will never cease to amaze you!

No doubt your emails to the women were "respectful and sincere." In this life everyone has their chosen paradigm in terms of how they they choose to comport themselves n interpersonal interactions with others. Based upon your persona in your posts, I find that your communication style smacks of directness tempered with subtlety and tact.

In simplest terms, the hostility thrust upon you appears to speak volumes about the two women - and has nothing to do with you! Quite frankly, these two females appear to be delusional hags who assumed erroneously that you were trying to seduce them. Again, some people will never cease to amaze me!

And So It Goes said Vonnegut!!

Excelsior - onwards and upwards!! !



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16 Jan 2011, 10:35 pm

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Look on the bright side, at least there's no mindgame in that kind of response. :lol:


Noteworthy point!! !



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17 Jan 2011, 12:48 am

I would.



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17 Jan 2011, 9:06 am

Jonsi wrote:
Grisha wrote:
Jonsi wrote:
I just wanna change my answer to 'I wouldn't date anyone right now.' :\


OMG, what happened? :(
The love of my life died yesterday night. I still feel very much attached.


I'm so sorry :(

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17 Jan 2011, 1:11 pm

Jonsi wrote:
Grisha wrote:
Jonsi wrote:
I just wanna change my answer to 'I wouldn't date anyone right now.' :\


OMG, what happened? :(
The love of my life died yesterday night. I still feel very much attached.


That's awful. I'm sorry :(



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17 Jan 2011, 6:23 pm

No most of you seem just as conceited and superficial as NT's it's nice to have standards and all though I can't help thinking you guys should take what you can get.....

Gut instinct tells me that's not a bad way to be both parties "settling" . Perhaps the marriage failure rate figures would be more favorable than those who marry for "love" it couldn't be any worse could it when one in two marriages end in tears . :?

Not that I like to rely on my gut (looks in the direction of W.) I suspect if he hadn't over indulged on roast, mashed potato and pumpkin pie with ice cream and cream! all while washing it down with Kentucky bourbon , America wouldn't be in the mess it is today!

May be if he instead went RAW , raw squash spaghetti marinara, raw coconut milk shake, raw chocolate cake (walnuts, cocoa powder, dates, vanilla extract, avocado , agave nectar and sea salt . ) America would be not be in the mess it is in today!

Actually I'm thinking of going raw after having my 1st raw chocolate cake the other day , satisfying sensual, healthy , and guilt free. :D


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17 Jan 2011, 6:49 pm

I'd date another Wper. Why not? After all we'd have something in common. An AS friend of mine has found success mainly by meeting and finding girls who have problems. People who have problems may be more accepting of me. Thats what i'm hoping anyway.



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17 Jan 2011, 6:55 pm

If they lived within a reasonable distance (about 200 miles), or were living in Chicago where I visit my brother from time to time, I'd consider it.



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17 Jan 2011, 7:32 pm

I have done so in the past. However, I have decided that it is entirely impractical to date someone who lives outside my geographical area.



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18 Jan 2011, 2:42 pm

I think the negative attitudes toward Christians and Republicans is what's stopping me.


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18 Jan 2011, 2:49 pm

Probably, if one interested me and was within a few miles of me. She would have to be female, though.


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18 Jan 2011, 3:06 pm

If I know the certain WPer well enough...Its a possibility.



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19 Jan 2011, 9:38 pm

shure, why not? Ive seen some attractive people here


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