Anyone here NOT into cats?
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That's not true at all, I'm as submissive as you can get and I still work well with dogs. It's all about understanding your dog's behaviour and reacting to it. Dogs respond well to confidence, but alpha traits- they could care less.
confidence IS a primary alpha trait.
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That's not true at all, I'm as submissive as you can get and I still work well with dogs. It's all about understanding your dog's behaviour and reacting to it. Dogs respond well to confidence, but alpha traits- they could care less.
confidence IS a primary alpha trait.
It's one trait, but honestly it depends on how you define alpha, and whether you're talking about alpha traits in relation to humans or dogs. As a dog trainer, I personally hate the term. I think people get too worked up on it as dog owners and try too hard to "dominate" their dogs. My 7 year old cousin has no problem going through both basic and complex commands with my Doberman, and I wouldn't really call her someone with an alpha personality.
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I was just stating that I defy the stereotype of Aspies and pets.
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I was just stating that I defy the stereotype of Aspies and pets.
oh. i an not comfortable about most dogs, unless they are the omegas in which case one omega to another is a good fit.
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I like dogs, but prefer cats. As others have stated on here, cats are low maintenance, can be left alone, etc. Dogs can be great fun, but require a lot more care and attention. For instance, I was staying at my brother's house for a few days. He owns a dog. I had to take my cat with me, and she stayed in the guest room on her favorite pillow. The dog required lots of attention, got his feelings hurt if I ordered him away from me ( I don't care for drool and getting my feet stepped on) and I had to play toss with him several times a day or again, his feelings got hurt. He reminded me of a very extroverted, but sensitive person who needed constant reassurance that he was loved. It was tiring.
As a child, I grew up with both cats and dogs. So I don't really dislike dogs. I just prefer cats.
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Oh yes. My brother-in-law is like this and always bellows commands at the dogs. He has to stand there, looming over them and barking (hah!) orders in a special stern voice.
I just use a different tone of voice with them, as required, and very rarely need to raise it. I don't think anyone else has noticed that the dogs respond just as well when they're spoken to, instead of "commanded".
They're well-trained and obedient, but no-one cares and they get treated like they're still being trained.
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Oh yes. My brother-in-law is like this and always bellows commands at the dogs. He has to stand there, looming over them and barking (hah!) orders in a special stern voice.
I just use a different tone of voice with them, as required, and very rarely need to raise it. I don't think anyone else has noticed that the dogs respond just as well when they're spoken to, instead of "commanded".
They're well-trained and obedient, but no-one cares and they get treated like they're still being trained.
Ha, yeah my dad's like that too with their lab. He bellows to her to go into her crate and she just stands there looking at him. I go over and say it in a normal voice and she flies into her crate, no problems. He wonders why she listens to me and not him, but the only difference is I trained her beforehand and made the command into a positive experience for her by always giving her a treat when she went in, and not treating it like a punishment. He never treats her, so she knows she won't get anything if she listens to him! He thinks that she should just listen to him without rewards because he's the "alpha"- just goes to show you how silly the whole alpha thing is!
Dogs aren't wolves, they don't function in hierarchical packs and the alpha/omega language that people use is so meaningless with them.
It's about then that I have to leave the room because it makes me so angry that someone could be stupid enough to think that this ridiculous domination is ever going to achieve anything - except a frightened and confused dog.
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I'm the same, OP.
I don't hate cats, but I take no interest in them and wouldn't want one as a pet.
I'm a dog person, and I love turtles even more than dogs.
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It's about then that I have to leave the room because it makes me so angry that someone could be stupid enough to think that this ridiculous domination is ever going to achieve anything - except a frightened and confused dog.[/quote]
Yep, sounds like my dad. He'll drag his dog over to her bed and tell her to stay, and when she actually does stay he expects her to do it for several minutes at a time. She was begging at the dinner table once and he told her to go to her bed and stay, and she did it but then he tried keeping her there for the whole of dinner, and when she got up after a few minutes (which is a pretty impressive stay) he would yell at her. She's a smart dog too, she just doesn't respond to being screamed at (big surprise).
Other times (ie. when my brother-in-law's not around - he hates it) I'll leave her sitting by me at the table. She's not actively begging or making a pest of herself - she just wants to sit near me.
Well, that's more than Ok with me.
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