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What is my orientation?
Poll ended at 18 Feb 2011, 3:15 pm
Lesbian? 33%  33%  [ 4 ]
Bi? 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
Asexual? 67%  67%  [ 8 ]
Total votes : 12

druidsbird
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16 Feb 2011, 3:15 pm

So here's the thing:

I have always dated both men and women.

I am only attracted to women.

I have no sex drive, and am happier the less often I have to have sex, because I have never enjoyed it much in any form.

Am I a lesbian, bi, or asexual? Opinions please.


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16 Feb 2011, 4:09 pm

I would guess lesbian. Most gays have tried both (how else do you find out?) so you probably aren't bi.

Then again, labels are meaningless unless you wish to flaunt them. It matters more how you are feeling at any given moment.



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16 Feb 2011, 4:50 pm

Id say your probably just lesbian. You should probably think about how it was it for you when you dated men and how did this differ when you dated women? Did you find dating women more furfilling? In the end its up to the person whether they want to date the sex their not attracted to. Some people still continue.



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16 Feb 2011, 4:52 pm

druidsbird wrote:
I have no sex drive.


= Asexual


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16 Feb 2011, 7:00 pm

MidlifeAspie wrote:
druidsbird wrote:
I have no sex drive.


= Asexual


Just because a person has no sex drive it doesn't mean that they're completely asexual.

druidsbird wrote:
I am only attracted to women.


I would say lesbian with some asexual tendencies.


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