No clue anymore. Seems like my biggest requirements are that we can have mutual attraction and can enjoy each other's company. If she's way different from myself, doesn't annoy me, and I somehow add something to her life and vice a verse - great. Other than that my lists of what I can't stand are pretty much that I'd hope she's financially responsible, believes in either fidelity or breakup, and knows what she wants somewhat. Things I need to have in a partner; self-sufficiency, respects others well, open-mindedness to learn or experience new things, can handle divergent points of view, etc.
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“Love takes off the masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within. I use the word "love" here not merely in the personal sense but as a state of being, or a state of grace - not in the infantile American sense of being made happy but in the tough and universal sense of quest and daring and growth.” - James Baldwin