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Frieslander
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27 Mar 2011, 12:08 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

*sigh*

This was a mistake, Frieslander.

You didn't have to tell her anything of this.

Well, there are varying opinions in the thread. And she's taking it pretty well. I couldn't really NOT tell her. It was driving me a little nuts.

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27 Mar 2011, 12:10 pm

Frieslander wrote:

This from a different forum:

On the other hand, I was honest with my OkCupid gal about the fact that I have never had sex, never been in a relationship, and my life is pretty complicated. She responded that she has some complications of her own, she appreciates my honesty, and she isn't sure if she wants to be in a relationship right now - for her own reasons.

Lose that pic on your profile and put the torso shot you took. Tell her someone said to do it for awhile just for kicks so she doesn't think it was you being vain, LOL. That might make her consider you. The virgin thing I could care less about but the schizophrenia would make me uneasy and probably slow things down. If she sees you manage your life maturely she may warm up - good luck to you.

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27 Mar 2011, 12:13 pm

curlyfry wrote:

Frieslander wrote:

Lose those pic on your profile and put the torso shot you took.

HuH? I don't want a torso pic of myself on my OkC profile.

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27 Mar 2011, 1:16 pm

curlyfry wrote:

but the schizophrenia would make me uneasy and probably slow things down. If she sees you manage your life maturely she may warm up - good luck to you.

No woman on OkC has been scared off by that yet, and there have been three that I have exchanged messages with.

Some schizoaffectives/schizophrenics harm people. My first cousin, a guy, picked up his dadover his shoulder because he thought that his step-mom was going to shoot his dad with a shotgun. A guy who I temporarily lived with at an AFC home later killed someone apparently for little reason. That's not me.

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27 Mar 2011, 1:43 pm

I told you once

I told you twice

I wiped my arse on that marmite slice

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27 Mar 2011, 2:09 pm

Laz wrote:

I told you once

I told you twice

I wiped my arse on that marmite slice

Does this have something to do with my post?

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27 Mar 2011, 2:11 pm

Frieslander wrote:

Laz wrote:

I told you once

I told you twice

I wiped my arse on that marmite slice

Does this have something to do with my post?

I don't think so :lol:

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27 Mar 2011, 2:13 pm

Titangeek wrote:

Frieslander wrote:

Laz wrote:

I told you once

I told you twice

I wiped my arse on that marmite slice

Does this have something to do with my post?

I don't think so :lol:

I hope not.

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27 Mar 2011, 2:14 pm

Frieslander wrote:

Laz wrote:

I told you once

I told you twice

I wiped my arse on that marmite slice

Does this have something to do with my post?

I had to look up Marmite since I live in the States.

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27 Mar 2011, 2:16 pm

Frieslander wrote:

Laz wrote:

I told you once

I told you twice

I wiped my arse on that marmite slice

Does this have something to do with my post?

I had to look up Marmite since I live in the States.

as did i, and i am still confused :roll:

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27 Mar 2011, 2:16 pm

hold the phone, you don't have Marmite in the US?!

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27 Mar 2011, 2:18 pm

Marmite? I'm afraid we don't have that in Canada either. Haven't a clue what that is.

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27 Mar 2011, 2:19 pm

that is a crime.

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27 Mar 2011, 6:53 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

*sigh*

This was a mistake, Frieslander.

You didn't have to tell her anything of this.

No. It's good that he told her. I would want to know as soon as possible. It makes it easier to work with any challenges that may come up in the relationship.

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27 Mar 2011, 7:32 pm

Memeticist wrote:

I'm curious as to what made you think that was a necessary disclosure at this juncture?

That's just about the hardest thing for us to get right, isn't it? The right time to say the right thing. But, when you feel like not owning up to something is affirmatively covering it up, the right course of action becomes pretty clear. Even if the reaction is not what we expect or would like it to be.

emlion wrote:

hold the phone, you don't have Marmite in the US?!

We have it. They sell roughly three jars of it per year, nationwide.

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28 Mar 2011, 3:30 am

emlion wrote:

that is a crime.

Marmite is a crime. The UN should be prosecuting them for crimes against humanity.

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