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seaweasel
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25 Mar 2011, 11:15 pm

Everytime a girl says hi to me i am instantly attracted to them is this normal or just an asperger thing?



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25 Mar 2011, 11:25 pm

It could be that your lonely & are hopeful that it could lead to something. I tend to become attracted to any single girl who's nice to me for a bit


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26 Mar 2011, 10:22 pm

When someone says hi to you, they become more significant figures in your life. You can look at them without being a creeper if you're talking to them. Maybe you pay more attention to girls who say hi to you, and so better appreciate their attractiveness.


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26 Mar 2011, 10:26 pm

seaweasel wrote:
Everytime a girl says hi to me i am instantly attracted to them is this normal or just an asperger thing?


I wouldn't say it would make me attracted to them if I wasn't already, but it definitely makes my day! I can clearly remember the 2-3 times this has happened to me in the last year or so...

Don't know if it's AS or not - it may be just a lonely guy thing...



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26 Mar 2011, 10:31 pm

I don't think it's a normal or an asperger's persons typical response.