Sensing hypersensitivities in people's written posts?

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Do you read my mind?

Haha. Maaaaaaybe.

Although I don't claim to be able to do this, in theory you could determine some sensitivities through word choice and phrasing. To give an obvious example, even if I wasn't discussing my sensory issues, if I mentioned that someone "stank of perfume", you might infer that I find perfume harsh and irritating. That is a glaringly obvious example, but there are many more subtle possibilities.

In practice, of course, there are complicating factors. To address the example I used above, I might not be especially sensitive; I might be mentioning an individual who used excessive amounts of an unusually strong perfume. And the more subtle the cues, the more you'd need a good sense of the person's overall vocabulary before you could infer anything with confidence. That is why, in spite of the fact I'm a writer, and characterisation through word choice is something I understand reasonably well, I'd never claim the ability to determine another's sensitivities through their posts.

I could, with reasonable success, give others the impression that a certain character in a story had certain sensitivities and attitudes - but I'd also plan that story carefully to provide the incidents that would allow me to develop that impression. And some readers would miss the point, and others would form a completely different impression than the one I intended. In the real world, posts are not carefully planned to give others an accurate picture of the poster. So I wouldn't consider any impressions gained from them particularly reliable.

This is how I pick up on the emotions. It's the choice of words and the verbal voice in my head helps out.
I read your post with a calm voice in my head. I can read posts and hear anger in my head or excitement or even people on the verge of tears.
This also comes out in my story writing.