Do you find it hard to get dates?

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Dating is hard for everyone, even neurotypicals. But you can make a strong argument it's easier for women because by the nature of things men are supposed to take the initiative. A lot of men end up with love-shyness.

Oh yes....dating is a complete nightmare for me. My mom used to keep this box of things she was going to give me for my wedding; she told me the other day that she finally gave up when I turned 28, with no prospective husband in the works.

What's worse for me is when I do date, I tend to draw very abusive partners. I don't realize it at the time, but generally the guy is a total creep. I'm totally naive when it comes to judging someone's character correctly.

I think I'm a fairly attractive person, so I've had a lot of first dates, but they never amount to anything. Every time I go out with someone for the first time I have high hopes, but usually mid date I'm ready to go home and be with my dog.

Never been on an date in my entire life, Im 19. People have told me before that I am very pretty but due to my shyness and my lack of social skills in general I cant get a date. Though I have particularly strived to get one. But closest friend is a guy but it'd be better if we werent dating. Dating would screw the friendship up.

i cant usually tell if a man finds me sexually attractive unless he spells it out to me.usually when someones flirting i think they are just being friendly i dont usually get it untill they become disgruntled and tell me what theyve been trying to do