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14 May 2011, 12:28 am

For me its:
-good looks (face particularly)
-nice body
-nice guy
-have respectable, well paid job/career or studying for well paid job
-taller than me
-strong
-have something in common
-not criminal

I know I'm very shallow, but I can't help it.

I'm female.

This is not a dating ad BTW. I'm curious what everyone else's ideal man or woman is.



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14 May 2011, 1:01 am

Someone who would put up with my crap. I'm not going to waste my time with someone who nags me consistently. That's really all that I ask.


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14 May 2011, 1:12 am

For me, a woman should be:

- Able-Bodied / Whole
- Active / Energetic
- Artistic / Talented
- Attractive / Shapely
- Clean / Healthy
- Cheerful / Upbeat
- Educated / Intelligent
- Employed / Employable
- Ethical / Truthful
- Faithful / Loyal
- Honest / Sincere
- Innovative / Resourceful
- Logical / Skeptical
- Natural / Un-Enhanced
- Neat / Orderly
- Nurturing / Supportive
- Passionate / Sensual
- Reasoning / Sane
- Self-Sufficient / Independant
- Sophisticated / Well-Mannered

No addictions, brandings, compulsions, criminality, dependants, obsessions, piercings, prejudices, scarifications or tattoos.

On top of all of this, if she can cook, mix drinks, and has a healthy rack, she's perfect!


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14 May 2011, 1:25 am

Someone who does not find me repulsive
Faithful
A good sense of humor
Loves stop motion animated movies
Loves horror films

other than what is listed above I am not too picky I can make myself get along with most people who I can't stand so I know if I met someone I really cared for I would treat her like a queen. :D


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14 May 2011, 1:29 am

A leftist:
Vegetarian (preferably vegan), a real feminist (not a guy who just gives it lip service), atheist, socialist, humanist

With a Conservative Lifestyle:
Doesn't drink, smoke, or do drugs, not highly-sexed, wants marriage and children, and a life that's relationship-centered


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14 May 2011, 1:34 am

Todesking wrote:
Someone who does not find me repulsive

Finding that is actually my biggest obstacle. :cry:


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14 May 2011, 1:40 am

Personally I'd just prefer she'd love me for who I am.
I can't imagine falling in love with a girl over her looks.
I fall in love with the heart, the personality.

I don't care how she looks, I will love her no matter what~:heart:
The girl I like has gained some weight over a few years, but I don't mind.
I never fell in love with her beauty in the first place, it was her heart that I loved.
She could be homeless, armless, legless or even a vegetable. I'd stand by her side if she needed it.
I don't care how a person looks, I care about their personality, their heart, their intelligence.

Intelligence is something we all have. Me for example, I'm horrible at Maths/Science, but doesn't mean I'm not intelligent :)



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14 May 2011, 1:45 am

I don't know. I feel I am not old enough or wise enough yet to truly know what I'm looking for in a partner.


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14 May 2011, 2:27 am

A man who:
- is not a mysogynist and who doesn't make generalizations about women.
- is not violent or abusive, physically, verbally or mentally
- loves children (but not in a pervy way of course)
- will try his best to support is family. Well payed is not important in my book, but someone who does his best to support the ones he loves is important
- loves me for who I am and doesn't try to change me
- is intelligent/talented. Someone who can impress me.


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14 May 2011, 2:29 am

sunshower wrote:
I don't know. I feel I am not old enough or wise enough yet to truly know what I'm looking for in a partner.


Neither am I.
That's why when I was 13, and my hormones were raging. I decided to wait.
Because from my experience of watching other kids, I decided, "I will wait patiently, and will learn off their mistakes"
I wasn't 100% sure what I was doing to be honest, but I had this strong urge to wait.
So, I did. For 5 years, I have waited.

I am still not sure if I am ready for a relationship yet, but I do know this.
Just wait for the right guy sunshower :heart:
Go by life and enjoy it. Make friends, learn new things.
Don't go searching for him, you'll just find him one day :) :heart:

And he'll love you for the way you are~



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14 May 2011, 2:33 am

Bethie wrote:
Todesking wrote:
Someone who does not find me repulsive

Finding that is actually my biggest obstacle. :cry:


Don't say that. You look great and you seem to be an interesting person, even if I don't agree with everything you say. Why would anybody find you repulsive? :?


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14 May 2011, 2:49 am

EgyptianCat wrote:
Just wait for the right guy sunshower :heart:
Go by life and enjoy it. Make friends, learn new things.
Don't go searching for him, you'll just find him one day :) :heart:

And he'll love you for the way you are~


Maybe. Or maybe I'll be a crazy cat woman living alone when I am old. In all honesty, both possibilities excite me.


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14 May 2011, 2:52 am

Bethie wrote:
Todesking wrote:
Someone who does not find me repulsive

Finding that is actually my biggest obstacle. :cry:


Now come on, you're a very beautiful young lady :).
Have more faith in yourself~

If a guy really loves you, he won't care how you look. In other words, no matter what you'll always be the most beautiful woman to him in the whole world, remember this :)



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14 May 2011, 2:56 am

sunshower wrote:
EgyptianCat wrote:
Just wait for the right guy sunshower :heart:
Go by life and enjoy it. Make friends, learn new things.
Don't go searching for him, you'll just find him one day :) :heart:

And he'll love you for the way you are~


Maybe. Or maybe I'll be a crazy cat woman living alone when I am old. In all honesty, both possibilities excite me.


Now come on, it's nice to have kitties, because they're cute :)
But no one wants to be alone~

I know I diffidently don't want to be alone forever.
Have more confidence.
I feel a very strong connection with you. You'll find a guy that likes you very much one day, and you'll both be very happy :)~



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14 May 2011, 3:50 am

Kiran wrote:
Bethie wrote:
Todesking wrote:
Someone who does not find me repulsive

Finding that is actually my biggest obstacle. :cry:


Don't say that. You look great and you seem to be an interesting person, even if I don't agree with everything you say. Why would anybody find you repulsive? :?



Because in modern Western culture, feminine fat is considered repulsive, and I have a bunch.


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14 May 2011, 3:54 am

"The girl of my dreams is probably God - still I want you!"


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