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MannyBoo
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31 Mar 2013, 11:58 pm

Looks good.

Thinks good.

Behaves good.



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01 Apr 2013, 2:56 am

Physically, elle fanning. In the inside, a good person.



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03 Apr 2013, 11:49 pm

Ideally an extrovert (to help me in social situations and to initiate interaction between the two of us)
Understanding, calm, and patient in times of emotional meltdowns and triggering situations
Smart and witty with a good sense of humor
At least 5'8" and stronger than me so that I do not feel I have to protect him
Makes me feel safe
Will listen to my rants about my interests
Gives me time to myself when I need it but affectionate when I ask for it
No smoking and minimal drinking if at all
Active and takes care of himself
I have to find him at least somewhat physically attractive
Gets along with my family
Good looks are appreciated but not a necessity


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04 Apr 2013, 1:17 am

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1. Ideally, either on the spectrum mildly or a strong "F" in the Myers-Briggs Personality test, so either very compassionate or very similar.

2. Shares some interests.

3. Enjoys some guy activities and talking about some guy stuff. I think just talking about girl stuff gets boring after awhile.

4. Good fashion sense (to help me out when I need it!)

5. Likes to work out.

6. High aggression, sarcasm etc. is a plus. I like play fighting/competing and hate women who are too passive in bed! I also love making sarcastic jokes at each other's expense with a partner.

7. Has a wider social circle than me or is willing to work together to build one.

8. Not hung up on gender roles / can take charge in some instances, especially at first. It's ok if I am the one in charge later when I'm more comfortable, but it can't be that way at the beginning. I can definitely be very dominant but not typically in unfamiliar situations.

9. Ideally (but not required) pretty tall (I am 6'2, so 5'10 or so would be nice)

10. Curvy/chunky but not unhealthy/overweight and still nice-looking.

11. Well-employed and educated (doesn't have to be formally). I expect to be so also, and I believe in equality!!


I guess, aside from a few items here, such #4 and #10, what I really want is a clone of myself?!?!



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04 Apr 2013, 2:03 am

My ideal woman would be..

5'8+
Tall and active with a lean attractive body
Mediterranean or French looking women are appreciated
Someone who desires mutual and selfless love
Someone who has an interest in the arts such as drawing or painting including tattoos
Somebody who is clean, organized and likes routine
Someone that has a wide range of taste in different films
Training in housekeeping skills, wants to maintain a nice home with equal input



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06 Apr 2013, 7:02 am

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06 Apr 2013, 5:20 pm

Wolfheart wrote:
My ideal woman would be..

5'8+
Tall and active with a lean attractive body
Mediterranean or French looking women are appreciated
Someone who desires mutual and selfless love
Someone who has an interest in the arts such as drawing or painting including tattoos
Somebody who is clean, organized and likes routine
Someone that has a wide range of taste in different films
Training in housekeeping skills, wants to maintain a nice home with equal input


what is french looking? there are black, white, asian french people. blonde, brown haired, red haired french people. short, tall, big lips, small lips, etc
there is no such thing



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06 Apr 2013, 5:22 pm

Cafeaulait wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
My ideal woman would be..

5'8+
Tall and active with a lean attractive body
Mediterranean or French looking women are appreciated
Someone who desires mutual and selfless love
Someone who has an interest in the arts such as drawing or painting including tattoos
Somebody who is clean, organized and likes routine
Someone that has a wide range of taste in different films
Training in housekeeping skills, wants to maintain a nice home with equal input


what is french looking? there are black, white, asian french people. blonde, brown haired, red haired french people. short, tall, big lips, small lips, etc
there is no such thing


He probably means southern France/the Spanish border areas. There is a distinct look.

Paris and down to Orleans, I think your description is correct. And, in Orleans, interracial couples were everywhere, so I bet, after a few generations, even the so-called white people will look "Mediterranean"



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06 Apr 2013, 5:55 pm

There is so much variety in what is appealing in women to me, and so many wonderful women out there. I have more of a problem in trying to decide what I like best.

In general though,
Intelligent
Wise
Sweet
Talkative / conversational
Expressive
Bookish
Knows herself well
Content
Calm
Understated
Likes simple pleasures
Likes trying new things
Wants a family
Tall
Healthy
Cute
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07 Apr 2013, 9:58 am

Someone who would like me for me.


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07 Apr 2013, 11:00 am

Well if I were interested, A woman with drive, intelligence, desire to succeed in life and doesn't carry to typical annoying qualities of average woman.

Basically women that don't exist.


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07 Apr 2013, 11:19 am

I don't think I'll really know untill I have found her. But I think she'll be something like the following :
* Not afraid to be weird or geeky
* Calm
* Cute
* Likes my various attempts at music
* Likes being home during weekends ( or at least not out drinking )



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09 Apr 2013, 1:38 pm

Well my ideal man is kind and loves me and he doesn't shout (and if he moans while having sex then I'm forever his).



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09 Apr 2013, 1:56 pm

As long as I found her physically attractive, if she loved me as much as I loved her and was as loyal as me I'd be happy.



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09 Apr 2013, 2:43 pm

my wife requirements are:

-Mature,
-Responsible,
-has her bachelors degree
-doesnt live with parents
-independence
-honest
-doesnt gossip
-has a career or is actively pursuing it
-no kids
-never married
-invests in herself
-health and weight conscious
-neither frumpy nor simple
-niether glamerous nor ostentatcious
-messy ok, dirty NOT ok
-personal hygiene
-has a car
-accepts my ppd/aspergers

this may sound too picky but its really not asking for much...



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09 Apr 2013, 2:48 pm

Cafeaulait wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
My ideal woman would be..

5'8+
Tall and active with a lean attractive body
Mediterranean or French looking women are appreciated
Someone who desires mutual and selfless love
Someone who has an interest in the arts such as drawing or painting including tattoos
Somebody who is clean, organized and likes routine
Someone that has a wide range of taste in different films
Training in housekeeping skills, wants to maintain a nice home with equal input


what is french looking? there are black, white, asian french people. blonde, brown haired, red haired french people. short, tall, big lips, small lips, etc
there is no such thing


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