What is your ideal man/woman?

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09 Apr 2013, 2:48 pm

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My ideal woman would be..

5'8+
Tall and active with a lean attractive body
Mediterranean or French looking women are appreciated
Someone who desires mutual and selfless love
Someone who has an interest in the arts such as drawing or painting including tattoos
Somebody who is clean, organized and likes routine
Someone that has a wide range of taste in different films
Training in housekeeping skills, wants to maintain a nice home with equal input


what is french looking? there are black, white, asian french people. blonde, brown haired, red haired french people. short, tall, big lips, small lips, etc
there is no such thing


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09 Apr 2013, 3:30 pm

I can never seem to throw a bunch of traits I like together into an ideal. I try to imagine someone, but it's not a person and it doesn't feel appealing at all. I do know someone (tragically unavailable) who I think would be ideal for me, though:

He's quiet and introspective on top of shy and gentle, made all the more endearing by the fact that he tries to hide it. The kind of person who feels compelled to take in strays, attends musicals, spends a lot of time lost in thought, and has creative pastimes like writing on top of programming and other computer skills.

One thing I think I would appreciate, as someone terrified of relationships, is that he considers his problems his responsibility and doesn't lash out at people in the vicinity or place the blame on someone else. Normally I'd be terrified of instability following any mood changes in my partner or in response to me not adhering to a rigid norm of behavior (too quiet, too slow to text, etc), or terrified of feeling like I'm responsible for their moods or fixing their problems instead of just providing support. He does kind of go to an extreme with it, though. It's a bit sad.

I could also throw in that I think he really has his head screwed on right when it comes to love. He's all about the journey. I don't think I'd ever need to feel like the relationship was a performance instead of a connection.



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09 Apr 2013, 3:56 pm

My ideal man would be...

Sexy
Sweet
Caring
Funny
Intelligent
Trustworthy
Helpful
Creative

I know it sounds like something out of a fairy tale...but hey, it could happen. :wink:



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09 Apr 2013, 4:11 pm

Hmm, for me...

The feeling of love, naturally!
Compatible sense of humour
Intelligent
Willing to share interests as well as to take interest in mine
Trustworthy
Willing to go off and explore new places together
That unplaceable "something", the thing that makes you click
Doesn't want children - people think I'm weird for thinking so far ahead but eh, makes sense to me.

Ah, if I could meet somebody like that, that would be awesome. :D



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19 Apr 2013, 3:20 am

I can really choose? OK...
In decreasing order of importance (from "essential" to "might be nice"):

– doesn't smoke or take drugs
– intelligent
– educated
– Aspie
– musical
– vegan
– asexual (but not aromantic)



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19 Apr 2013, 4:12 am

To be honest I have a hard time imagining her, sometimes I'd browse okcupid profiles and look at the faces and feel so hopeless...I don't like the psuedo smile society forces on them, and the fact they're lock-step with this large concious makes me feel estranged from them.

I wish that there was one that didn't really care about being a part of this society, but the fact that each of them displays that same face means I'm on the losing end.

It just that I know I'm not compatible with what the world is, which is so different from what I am. People say they'd rather be weird than be normal, but those people have never felt the sort of desolace that being 'weird' can bring.

But I guess she would be a free spirit, without the burden of living up to expecations or traditions... just someone to explore space and time with for the creation of something to be nostalgic about. I don't really care about the rest anymore.



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19 Apr 2013, 5:36 am

Wolfheart wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
My ideal woman would be..

5'8+
Tall and active with a lean attractive body
Mediterranean or French looking women are appreciated
Someone who desires mutual and selfless love
Someone who has an interest in the arts such as drawing or painting including tattoos
Somebody who is clean, organized and likes routine
Someone that has a wide range of taste in different films
Training in housekeeping skills, wants to maintain a nice home with equal input


what is french looking? there are black, white, asian french people. blonde, brown haired, red haired french people. short, tall, big lips, small lips, etc
there is no such thing


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Plenty of women like that walking around in the Netherlands, Brazil, or Sweden. I've lived in France. There's nothing 'French looking' about that.



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19 Apr 2013, 7:02 am

Ideal? What does that even mean? All I know is, if I can look into her eyes and live to tell the tale, she mustn’t be so ideal.

I’m very naïve. I’m still discovering bits of the female charm I had managed to go so far without noticing, like how much a woman’s shoulders and waist seem almost designed for a man to hold with his arms. Dancing might actually be sweet.

Of course, I might as well try to fetch some candy from a dark crater on the far side of the Moon.



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22 Apr 2013, 8:51 am

i use to have all these qualities of what i want but then i realized i was searching for someone who didn't exist now i want somebody in other words a man who is nice to me that's all i really need.



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22 Apr 2013, 9:09 am

LunaOsa, That is the ideal! :heart: :heart: :nerdy: :nerdy: :heart: :heart:


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23 Apr 2013, 5:52 am

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LunaOsa, That is the ideal! :heart: :heart: :nerdy: :nerdy: :heart: :heart:


-blushes- thank you



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23 Apr 2013, 5:59 am

appletheclown wrote:
LunaOsa, That is the ideal! :heart: :heart: :nerdy: :nerdy: :heart: :heart:


You know, your post is probably the most real here, that girl exists.



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23 Apr 2013, 9:34 pm

I'll go for it - Ideal meansthat there is a 99% chance of there being no one like this:

Stimulating/creative - someone who makes me want to do better, just by being herself.

Healthy - neither obese nor anorexic.

Similar interests:
Natural Sciences
Environmental/Humanitarian
Artistic/Musical
History
"Spirituality" based in nature/honorable
Exercise: Martial Arts/Dance/Hiking/Horseback/etc.
Reading

Perhaps some "geeky" stuff - (Anime/Cosplay/Steampunk)

Perhaps kinky (does not know what that really means)

Exploratory/Experimental in most things

Would like the idea of an "Off-grid" life


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23 Apr 2013, 10:15 pm

Ideal woman:

Someone close to my age, who shares my beliefs, loves children, self-sufficient, loving, caring, and has a HUGE heart capable of loving both an AS man and a PDD-NOS daughter.

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28 Apr 2013, 8:30 am

starrchild wrote:
i use to have all these qualities of what i want but then i realized i was searching for someone who didn't exist now i want somebody in other words a man who is nice to me that's all i really need.


I feel the same, I have a massive list of qualities of how I would want someone to be but slowly realizing that this person I have created in my head doesn't exist.



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28 Apr 2013, 10:03 am

I think someone who loved me enough to exchange his sense of self with mine.
Someone sincere, someone i can trust with my eyes closed.
Someone who glows like I do when I see him.
Just someone who will love me, protect me and take care of me. As I would him.

Dynamite in bed would be good too :)