Called a friend "annoying" and now she hates me. H

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Long story short I was having a conversation with friend on Facebook chat and a another friend joined in and started posting random s**t. I texted a friend that it was annoying and they took offense. The next day I got a text from the girl I was chatting with saying that: "She didn't want to talk to me anymore."
I feel depressed bordering on suicidal and I don't know what to do.

Well if she was annoying you, why does it matter if she doesn't want to be friends anymore? If you still want to be friends with her, call her (don't just text) and ask her about it, and then apologize for saying something behind her back that hurt her feelings.

It sounds a little bit extreme that they wouldn't want to talk anymore because you described their postings as annoying, though I guess with it being behind their back I can see the reason. There are two things you can do here.

1. Apologise. If they don't want to hear it, then at least you tried.
2. Forget about them and move on to someone else.

Sorry you're feeling depressed, I've been there myself. Hope things improve for you soon.