I was coming back from the shop a few days ago, when a van pulled up beside me. This immediately triggered a range of panic responses in me, but I am trying to act like a relatively normal human being at the moment, so I stopped to see what the driver wanted.
The man driving asked me if I was local. I nodded. He then said he had been working on a housing development nearby (there are a couple), and that he had too many mattresses left over from this job. He asked if I, or anyone I knew, would like a mattress.
I was just a bit flummoxed by this. I thought it was a bit odd. But anyway, I don't know any other human beings in the area I live in, and there was no way I was going to open my door to him, no matter how normal I am trying to be. So I said no.
I didn't really think anything about it. But when I told my mum about what happened, she said I could have been scammed, and the man could have been dangerous.
I find this really hard. I'm trying to not give in to my anxieties quite so much these days. Be braver. But I'm also quite gullible and naive. So maybe I should just stick with my anxieties, at least they will protect me a bit.
Was this a scam? Was he dangerous? Or is my mum more paranoid than I am?