how to find a soulmate?

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tips on finding a soulmate?

mate with lots of souls.

Nice,kind, a lot tattoes, into art and comfronting

Define what a soulmate is?
As what from I know there are multiple meanings to that term.

I feel the first tip is not to look for one; if you happen to find someone who you are compatible with, that's wonderful. I feel if you are fortunate enough to find someone it will be by chance when you least expect it.

An interesting idea. Here's the way I see things, there's no such thing as soulmates in the traditional sense. You pick the most compatible person you can while you are young (not yet 30) and you stick with them. You can't really spend old age with someone if you don't spend your best years together, after all lasting love is nothing more than shared experiences. If anything you can become soulmates after several decades together, but there's no such thing as a predetermined soulmates.

If I knew how to find a soulmate, I wouldn't be single.

Date as much girls as you can (one at a time) and try to really know them. And do not date them just because you like the way they look, but because you like the way they are. When I met my husband I did not even like him. I did not like the way he looked, but he was funny and pretty smart. He asked me out. I tried to refuse, but he insisted too much and I did not want to be rude. That night I knew I wanted him in my life. Now I am glad he insisted that much.

Only when I stopped looking for a "soulmate" did I finally meet the woman of my dreams.

Love is where it finds you.

thanks, everyone seem to tell me that I shouldn't look but to let it come to me kind of thing

to TeaEarlGreyHot

Yes

thanks

Do what things that you love to do, but make the added point of doing them where you might meet other people, especially young single people, when practical. Build relationships even with people you don't want to date, but that you share interests with, because they will know other people and might introduce you.

Basically, you don't go looking, you go living. While being careful not to do live in a bubble (just plain old impossible to meet a soul mate inside a bubble).