MR20 wrote:
MrXxx wrote:
If you don't try at all, you are guaranteed to fail.
I've tried plenty of times and it's never worked out. No matter what I did people never accepted me. I've never had a real connection with a non-family person and I probably never will. It saddens me deeply whenever I think about that, but it's the thruth.
Quit quitting on yourself. If you quit on yourself, there's nothing anyone can do to help you.
Everyone else has given up on helping me and befriending me, so what difference does it make?
Are you even listening to yourself? Put yourself across the room. Pretend you are one of your own friends, and listen to yourself.
What you you do?
No one can help a drowning man who's pulling down the people trying to save him. At some point, they have to pull away or they both drown.
Think about it. You really need to start by changing the way you're speaking to yourself. But you can't expect to just say a few positive things and your life magically changes. You have to do it, keep doing it, and never stop doing it.
That's how it works.
If you're bent on trashing yourself, and won't stop trashing yourself, there really isn't anything anyone here can do to help.
If you CAN'T stop trashing yourself, I HIGHLY recommend seeing somebody about the probability that you are currently suffering from serious depression. It may be only temporary, it may be long term. It sounds dangerous right now to me.
You need to get some help. I'm serious. Help that we can't give you here.
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I'm not likely to be around much longer. As before when I first signed up here years ago, I'm finding that after a long hiatus, and after only a few days back on here, I'm spending way too much time here again already. So I'm requesting my account be locked, banned or whatever. It's just time. Until then, well, I dunno...
21 Jul 2011, 12:42 pm
