Constant rejection from women is making me suicidal

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09 Oct 2012, 10:04 pm

MR20 wrote:

I hate all this game, psychological, manipulation crap. It all goes over my head, and I'm probably too simple-minded to follow it. I just wanted a girl that's nice and has the same interests as me; pretty much a hermit, a loner that doesn't many friends, enjoys watching anime and playing video games.

But that's pretty much a dream as I'm too pathetic and worthless for any girl/women to want me. I'm ugly, slow, uneducated, poor, porn-addicted, boring, and un-charismatic.

I'm 25, never dated, friendless, car-less (can't drive), and still lives with my parents. I'm a disgraceful bum, and I'm sick of people using my attitude as an excuse for the way I am. I was born this way, and destined to be a failure and alone forever.

We should e-date, because I'm the same way.

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09 Oct 2012, 10:29 pm

ValentineWiggin wrote:

All our impulses and desires are bio-chemical or -related.

What in bloody hell does that have to do with anything?

It means drugs are awesome.

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09 Oct 2012, 10:34 pm

SadAspy wrote:

Can't believe this post has gotten to 11 pages.

I wasn't looking for advice on how to get women...I was looking for advice on how to cope with the fact that I will NEVER have one.

Buy a blow-up doll. Buy fifty, and pretend you have your own senate, or get eighteen and pretend you have your own golf course.

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09 Oct 2012, 10:40 pm

swbluto wrote:

mechanicalgirl39 wrote:

It's your job to do what you can to make yourself attractive and if a woman still doesn't want you then accept that and find a way to be ok with it.

Read: Find what women find attractive and pretend. Even if your ability to pretend sucks now, practice makes perfect.

You think I might be joshing you, but I am totally not and my experience has proven this. The whole "Be yourself" maxim only really works if "yourself" is fundamentally attractive to begin with; if not, then you must pretend to be someone attractive.

We all wear masks. I think sometimes you find you gotta fake it 'till you make it.

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09 Oct 2012, 10:42 pm

MountZion wrote:

mechanicalgirl39 wrote:

MountZion wrote:

mechanicalgirl39 wrote:

I see little has changed since last time I frequented this subsection.

You want some anger SadAspy?

Here we go.

I'm SICK of men like you putting all the responsibility for YOUR feelings and YOUR problems on women.

It's not women's job to fall in love with you, have sex with you, spend time with you. It's your job to do what you can to make yourself attractive and if a woman still doesn't want you then accept that and find a way to be ok with it.

But no. Women owe you sex, women owe you a relationship, women owe you this, women owe you that.

I'm SICK of men who think women owe them something just because. GROW the hell up and SHUT the hell up.

I understand the sentiment, but the bolded is MUCH easier said than done. Insignificant, but I thought it relevant to add that.....

EDIT: If it was so easy to find a way and accept it, we wouldn't have raging guys like SadAspy running around preaching the "evils of women", however hideously misguided he is.

I know it's vastly easier said than done but he could do so many things that are more constructive than being a raging misogynist.

He could get help.

He could see his doctor, ask for psychological treatment.

He could find a therapist on his own and get help pinpointing and fixing whatever it is that women see and are turned off by.

But no. It's our fault. How dare we not want to be with him.

I wholeheartedly concur, there are more constructive things he could do to help himself. Far more. I just feel that accepting it and being lonely is not a constructive way. I still remember all those guys that stuck up for Sodini on the net not too long ago, that was a little disturbing. That alone is why they need to take action in sorting their lives out.

WTF?

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09 Oct 2012, 10:49 pm

seoulgamer wrote:

Quote:

I'm a pathetic loser who doesn't deserve anyone.

Newsflash: we're all pathetic losers who don't deserve anyone around here, or at least that's how everyone feels most of the time. I gather that you're looking for sympathy (I know I've fished for it a couple of times) but that aside, why exactly are you posting here? You don't seem to believe anyone's advice or kind words, so there's nothing anyone can do to help you.

Don't mean to be harsh, but you're the only one who can help yourself. The problem isn't with women, it's with your attitude. Perhaps some women are as bad as you claim; in that case, find better women to be with who will appreciate you. There's plenty of women out there looking for a good man to be their partner, it's up to us to rise to the challenge of meeting that standard and putting our best foot forwards.

Either way, if you're determined to be unhappy, I hope you at least end up content with your place in the world. Misery can be rather satisfying to indulge in, so long as you don't drown others in your unhappiness too.

Almost every post is me fishing for sympathy, it's all I know how to do. I love to use this forum as a misery deposit box.

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09 Oct 2012, 10:57 pm

hale_bopp wrote:

Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

I know you are, but what am I?

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09 Oct 2012, 11:06 pm

DialAForAwesome wrote:

SadAspy wrote:

DialAForAwesome wrote:

Hmmmmm......

SadAspy, do you have any form of IM or anything I could reach you at? I'd like to see if maybe we can talk about things and exchange experiences and see if that might help you feel better (believe me, I'm in the same boat as you, almost, so it's not like you'll be talking to someone who doesn't understand).

You can PM me here...I'd be happy to talk to you since you are not a female.

I just sent you a PM.

Let's just say that I'm not popular with the ladies either. :wink:

I've learned to accept it for the most part, which is why I'd like to try to help others who are in the same boat. Do I believe that some women can be mean? Yeah, but I also think the same of some men. Face it, certain people are just jerks.

I don't think being unpopular with the opposite sex should be grounds for wanting to kill yourself (then again, it's your life, although I don't like when people die before their time, or at all, really) but I can understand the frustration. I've been down that road, busted a tire, replaced the tire, drove to Dave & Buster's, bought the T-shirt, crashed the car, hitchhiked back.....you get the picture.

Speak for yourself.

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09 Oct 2012, 11:08 pm

DialAForAwesome wrote:

hyperlexian wrote:

Fullofstars wrote:

"I'd be happy to talk to you because you're not a Jew."

"I'd be happy to talk to you because you're not black."

"I'd be happy to talk to you because you're not gay."

I can't imagine that any of those statements would be tolerated.

i agree. SadAspy, i'd like you to understand that it is actually quite hurtful to make statements like that. women are human beings that do not deserve those words. you are targeting an entire gender with your anger and bitterness, but we are not responsible for it. you really need to stop this.

I think the misogynist thing may just be a phase he is going through. I....haven't seen all his posts, but I will be honest and say that when I was younger I went through the same thing. It took me a while but I got over it and realized that while there are jerks out there, there are also good people too. It's just kinda hard to find said good people, and I think that is where the frustration comes in.

Blue-balls doesn't help.

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09 Oct 2012, 11:09 pm

hyperlexian wrote:

DialAForAwesome wrote:

hyperlexian wrote:

Fullofstars wrote:

I think the misogynist thing may just be a phase he is going through. I....haven't seen all his posts, but I will be honest and say that when I was younger I went through the same thing. It took me a while but I got over it and realized that while there are jerks out there, there are also good people too. It's just kinda hard to find said good people, and I think that is where the frustration comes in.

if it is a phase, great. hopefully he will turn it around and will contribute to threads without introducing the hate. but misogyny is not welcome on WrongPlanet.

Speak for yourself.

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09 Oct 2012, 11:16 pm

CrazyStarlightRedux wrote:

steviewonderau wrote:

Some people are destined to be alone. Thank god there are drugs, alcohol, porn and other things to help fill the void.

You forget things you actually LIKE doing...such as playing video games, watching movies and listening to songs.

Well, I genuinely like alcohol, drugs, and porn.

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09 Oct 2012, 11:16 pm

wtfid2 wrote:

DogsWithoutHorses wrote:

wtfid2 wrote:

SadAspy wrote:

NO WOMEN SHOULD BE POSTING IN THIS THREAD!

YOU ARE ALL LYING, COLD-HEARTED, MANIPULATIVE b*****s AND YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO BE ALONE!

ahaha

and we wonder why more women don't post here....

i never wondered this..seems a good amount of women are on here....

Hello.

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09 Oct 2012, 11:20 pm

Adam82 wrote:

I get this way too sometimes. It's a bit much to take. When you get rejected by every single female you've ever shown an interest in, clearly you're doing something wrong.

30 now and still as virgin as the pure winters snow. It's too late for me to 'catch up' with my peers. I'll likely never have anyone now.

I'm ready to settle. If you have a job, your own place, and a drivers license, I'm the future Mrs. Adam82.

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09 Oct 2012, 11:23 pm

steviewonderau wrote:

Get to 30 and it is all over. No experience, rejected by everyone and it is best to give up and enjoy the remaining years of your life alone.

::whistles M*A*S*H theme song::

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09 Oct 2012, 11:27 pm

WantToHaveALife wrote:

DogsWithoutHorses wrote:

wtfid2 wrote:

DogsWithoutHorses wrote:

wtfid2 wrote:

SadAspy wrote:

NO WOMEN SHOULD BE POSTING IN THIS THREAD!

YOU ARE ALL LYING, COLD-HEARTED, MANIPULATIVE b*****s AND YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO BE ALONE!

ahaha

and we wonder why more women don't post here....

i never wondered this..seems a good amount of women are on here....

the perception that men post here more has been used multiple times in current top threads as 'evidence' that men have more dating/relationship issues
which is funny to me...because it completely ignores an obvious contributing factor....^^^

i guess it shows that men are far more likely to end up alone than women are

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09 Oct 2012, 11:28 pm

ShamelessGit wrote:

I've seen several posts like this before. This is normal for aspergerian males.

I have difficulty understanding how so many people can be suicidal so often, however, because whenever I get broken, the pieces get put back together so that they can't get broken in the same way again.

I would try finding things that give me self-worth and meaning that I can take care of myself. Love is something that has to be given to you, and it has nothing to do with deserving or not deserving.

Love means never having to say you're sorry.

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