Things we hate about NTs

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O, aspie brothers and sisters, you're so right about every little thing you say. I don't think I even have anything to add. *Embrace you all*

Damned NT's! If I believed in God, I'd wish all NT's to Hell!

NTs Are One-Sided

NTs have one rule for them and one rule for you. They can do this, but you can't do what they did. It's like if someone's talking about a favourite comedy of mine let's say Red Dwarf, they go on and on and on and on about it and everyone else around him/her are amazed by what he/she is saying, and when I say "Shut up!" They say "No." However, if I say one thing just ONE thing about let's say if I try and talk about Red Dwarf as well, they say "Shut up, no one asked you." Even though I'm talking about a different episode in Red Dawrf to what they were talking about. And if I ignore and try to carry the conversation on, they ignore me and eventually run/walk away from me.

NTs Never Want To Get To Know People Like Me

Usually NTs will go with 1st appearences and don't want to know me in great detail. So I have spots, glasses, and am a bit on the round side, and I can't really socialise with girls as well (even though they don't know I've been socialising with boys most of my school days), so they think "Right, he's a gay, fat, nerd." Even people on the street (mostly girls) look at me and murmur "GEEK" or "NERD" or "DORK" and sometimes the opposite "SPAS" or "ret*d" or "STUPID". No NT would bother to get to know me, and if they do, they either can't accept my personality (if they've got to know me that much) or they watch closely on me and try to manipulate me and break me.

My Conclusion

NTs do not really want to get along with people like us, because they can't get it into their little f***ing heads that we are a little different to any other NT.

On The Plus Side

At least I have 1 friend who I've been friends with since I was 4 (he's the same age as me) accepts who I am and get's on with life. It's because his mum (Who's very nice) told him about it, and Ben also has an autistic brother. So he knows how I feel.

P.S.

Sorry if this was a bit too long. I had to make my point see.

They have to be "on top" whatever they have to destroy to achieve that status, and the more they have to destroy the better for some of them.

To many of them the only safe world is a dead world.

To them life just isn't life.

They are constitutionally incapable of living and allowing others to live.

They can barely see in two dimensions, let alone three or more.

They do whatever it takes to control those who are smarter than they are. Is this one a repeat?

Call them on their nonsense and they get really violent.

They like to scare themselves to death to excuse controlling others by violence.

Can't date em and when they do like me I'm still too bugged about comparatively feeling as wreckless and out of control socially as Hunter Thompson in Fear and Loathing (just barely hiding the fact that I'm nothing like them and can feel a come-up looking me down from right around the corner). Don't hate them on it, just the circumstance.

Yeah, there's also the whole social pettiness and perfection thing as well with a lot of people but anymore I don't fault em on that and sadly I see we're no different, that's just competitive human nature period.

The thing that will unsettle them the most is a hefty charge of life energy. They don't know how to deal with the sensations.

The way they think that "talk to the hand" and "your momma" are witty and intelligent points to make in a discussion.

The fact that they would rather discuss which celebrity is sleeping with whom rather than participating in an exchange of ideas.


The fact that as soon as you say something that might make them think, most of them say "That's too heavy!"

The fact that their humour is so often based on making fun of people, and that conversation with them feels like a oneupmanship game.

The fact that they call us stupid when we've said something that was true that they were too dumb to understand.

Cliqueyness.

Fakeness.

They value appearance more than substance.

They value emotion over logic.

They call us emotionless while not seeming to feel any deep or complex emotions themselves.

They call us unempathetic when they are the people who are likely to bullly, start wars...

They don't normally have any strong interests.

They will cry over the death of a celebrity yet barely notice what is happening in the lives of their closest friends.

They will one day condemn someone for not caring whose toes they stand on to get ahead in business, and the next day they will be rude to someone who was just trying to do their job. BOTH THINGS AMOUNT TO TREATING PEOPLE BADLY.

Honest communication? What's that? They are too scared to say what they really mean.

They can't mind their own damn business.

They won't shut up.

They lie and don't tell the truth because they don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. You can't trust them when you're expecting an honest opinion

NTs ask for your opinion and get mad when they don't hear what they wanted to hear

They don't like our aspie gifts

Their hairy feet...oh wait nevermind,I was thinking of hobbits

They're dumb

If you talk about an unusual Obsession that you've had for years, but they knew nothing about, they ask you what that object is, in a very sarcastic Roseanne tone of voice, "What's a: fill in the blank."

That's happened with me and the Routemaster in February, when I really should have been seeing a thearapist, but was too afraid to do so.

* They only ever talk about a few topics (football, makeup, soap operas, etc.)
* They giggle and laugh constantly when they're talking even when nobody seems to have said anything funny
* They have to constantly talk as if they're afraid of silence
* If you don't behave exactly like them, then you're a 'weirdo' and deserve to be shunned, teased, laughed at, and generally made miserable
* They cry because their boyfriend forgot their birthday, but don't seem to care that a forest has been destroyed
* They say something completely feasible without a trace of a smile, and then act like you're stupid when you don't realize that they were joking
* Female NTs consider it as vital a part of existence as food or water to draw on their faces with colored paint and spray themselves with strange, sickly-smelling chemicals
* They whine about things that are wrong in the world but make no effort to try to put them right
* Female NTs intermittently scream and make strange 'woooooooo' noises. Male NTs intersperse similar 'wooooooooo' noises with roars and grunts. Sometimes I wonder if people in general are de-evolving.
* They can't seem to comprehend that someone would want to be alone and constantly pester you when you just wanted some quiet time
* Teenage NTs think the ultimate in cool is to spend the evening hanging around a shopping precinct or the streets in town with 'mates', even in the middle of winter.

Even if it's been said before I chime in with their complete misinterpretation of the obvious in leaving people they have nothing to do with alone, which is the same as trying to control what they have no business controlling. HATE idiots like that. Especially if you live in a stinking shit-hole where every idiot knows every other idiot, like I do. It's okay since I live with parents and hardly ever have to see anyone, but the times I do, you can be sure the idiots try their best to shun me even though I give them every signal in the world that I'm simply not interested in the lowly, worthless scums who have nothing of importance to contribute to society other than just another anonymous number in the maintenance process of society.
My attitude has always been that bullies are to be bullied, that there are no free lunches and that thusly, the world has it all wrong in glorifying idiotic behaviour over something that could change the world for the better for them and me and all of us, but isn't allowed to flower due to their egocentric and f*****g shortsighted perspectives.

For the rest I couldn't agree more with you all, my wonderful, equal-minded friends (even if you would hate me, I'd still adore everyone with your attitudes because you're so right)! Except for the use of illicit drugs in case it's for good purposes like inspiration and enlightenment.

They feel very threatened by us for some reason i cannot figure out.

**They love things that can make the most noise like Harley Davidsons, balloons popping, firecrackers, the car stereo turned up so loud it makes the whole car vibrate and go, "vroom! brrmm! BRRRMMMM!". And whoever invented those car alarms that go off whenever a speck of dust lands on the hood needs to be beaten severely.


**Since when did being "out-going", a "people person" and "team player" become job skills? I thought job skills were things you learned at school or during training that focused on actually doing the job tasks, not sucking up to your co-workers.


**For god's sake, why do we have to do this song and dance routine when finding a mate? What happened to just being yourself and having fun while getting to know the real person, not some false persona someone puts up or following Mars/Venus rules that make no sense? No wonder the divorce rate is 60%!


**They expect all children to learn certain skills at a certain age using one learning style, even though everyone learns at a different pace.


**Say they want world peace yet can't even have peace in their own households much less on an international level.


**Say they don't tolerate bullying or corporate punishment in schools yet what they mean is they don't tolerate NT kids being bullied or corporally punished. Non-NTs aren't really human so do what you want with them, even shock with electrodes, let other kids beat them up and if the AS kid has the nerve to complain, blame him instead of the perpetrator.