Things we hate about NTs

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05 Sep 2006, 1:33 pm

**They love things that can make the most noise like Harley Davidsons, balloons popping, firecrackers, the car stereo turned up so loud it makes the whole car vibrate and go, "vroom! brrmm! BRRRMMMM!". And whoever invented those car alarms that go off whenever a speck of dust lands on the hood needs to be beaten severely.

**Since when did being "out-going", a "people person" and "team player" become job skills? I thought job skills were things you learned at school or during training that focused on actually doing the job tasks, not sucking up to your co-workers.

**For god's sake, why do we have to do this song and dance routine when finding a mate? What happened to just being yourself and having fun while getting to know the real person, not some false persona someone puts up or following Mars/Venus rules that make no sense? No wonder the divorce rate is 60%!

**They expect all children to learn certain skills at a certain age using one learning style, even though everyone learns at a different pace.

**Say they want world peace yet can't even have peace in their own households much less on an international level.

**Say they don't tolerate bullying or corporate punishment in schools yet what they mean is they don't tolerate NT kids being bullied or corporally punished. Non-NTs aren't really human so do what you want with them, even shock with electrodes, let other kids beat them up and if the AS kid has the nerve to complain, blame him instead of the perpetrator.

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05 Sep 2006, 1:46 pm

Oh, and the thing I hate most of all.....Trying to control everyone else's lives but their own, even when the issue is non of their g*****n business.

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05 Sep 2006, 7:25 pm

I'm sorry, I hate the behavior of trashing other people just because they're different.
I don't hate the people who do it, just the behavior.

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05 Sep 2006, 9:04 pm

(Okay, I don't really hate NTs but what the hey )

They think that putting on a fake smile is empathy
They tell each other lies all the time, but we are accused of it when we're telling the truth
The cover is the book to them
They get upset when I complain that there are no rocks at a rock concert.
They get upset when I throw rocks at a rock concert
They get upset when I throw rocks at the police
They get upset when I throw grenades at the police
They get upset when I drop rocks from orbit on the police
They get upset when I don't drop grenades from orbit (they'll burn up!)

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06 Sep 2006, 1:55 am

Who_Am_I wrote:

The fact that their humour is so often based on making fun of people, and that conversation with them feels like a oneupmanship game.

The fact that they call us stupid when we've said something that was true that they were too dumb to understand.

They value appearance more than substance.

They value emotion over logic.

They call us emotionless while not seeming to feel any deep or complex emotions themselves.

They call us unempathetic when they are the people who are likely to bullly, start wars...

Honest communication? What's that? They are too scared to say what they really mean.

They can't mind their own damn business.

They won't shut up.

I completely agree.

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06 Sep 2006, 3:16 am

bizarre wrote:

They feel very threatened by us for some reason i cannot figure out.

They feel threathened of anybody who can think for him/herself and isn't just a "social" animal, that's you're supposed to be in their narrowminded world.

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06 Sep 2006, 8:15 am

Xuincherguixe wrote:

They get upset when I throw rocks at a rock concert
They get upset when I throw rocks at the police
They get upset when I throw grenades at the police
They get upset when I drop rocks from orbit on the police

Hey! I get upset by those things too!

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