Should I break up with my girlfriend because I suck.

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CircusFreak
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04 Sep 2011, 10:53 am

Her face is better looking than mine btw



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04 Sep 2011, 10:55 am

Guys whine because they have no girlfriends.

And you're whining because you have a girlfriend :P.



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04 Sep 2011, 10:59 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Guys whine because they have no girlfriends.

And you're whining because you have a girlfriend :P.


Nah, just wondering if I am good enough for her.

The ONE thing I have going for me is I am in good physical condition..not thin or fat(nothing wrong with being thin or fat)..which is rarity for guys according to my girlfriend.

I'm 100% normal looking(average face,average body, hieght ect.) and I treat her very well. This seems to be good enough i guess.



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04 Sep 2011, 11:04 am

Relax, if you weren't good enough for her, she wouldn't want to be with you.
Just treat each other well and enjoy being together.



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04 Sep 2011, 12:53 pm

maybe if you stopped whining and started acting like a man youd feel like you are good enough for her.



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04 Sep 2011, 1:02 pm

CircusFreak wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Guys whine because they have no girlfriends.

And you're whining because you have a girlfriend :P.


Nah, just wondering if I am good enough for her.

The ONE thing I have going for me is I am in good physical condition..not thin or fat(nothing wrong with being thin or fat)..which is rarity for guys according to my girlfriend.

I'm 100% normal looking(average face,average body, hieght ect.) and I treat her very well. This seems to be good enough i guess.


You already have your answer, then.



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04 Sep 2011, 2:14 pm

thedaywalker wrote:
maybe if you stopped whining and started acting like a man youd feel like you are good enough for her.



It's hard to go back to school without a car in your mid 20s....sort of.


How do I act like a man? I feel I am too mentally weak.



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04 Sep 2011, 2:53 pm

If you point out your faults to her, she'll start to see them a lot more.

If you start feeling better about yourself and emphasize what you're doing right, it'll make both of you happier.

Obviously she likes you for some other reason besides that you're average. She might like your sense of humor, your intelligence, your personality, something. Don't worry about failing her, just focus on your future, on your relationship and on making sure both of you are happy in it.

Good luck.



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04 Sep 2011, 3:01 pm

CircusFreak wrote:
thedaywalker wrote:
maybe if you stopped whining and started acting like a man youd feel like you are good enough for her.



It's hard to go back to school without a car in your mid 20s....sort of.


How do I act like a man? I feel I am too mentally weak.


Exactly....If your mind is imprisoned it doesn't matter what shape your body is in.I've seen enormously fat guys that had so much confidence they were the life of the party.And at the same time it doesn't matter if you're built like Schwarzenegger,if you are mentally unstable.

Perhaps you would do well to look up 'Subconscious mind programming' on the internet.They say that your subconscious controls your self confidence/esteem and other inner reactions beyond conscious control.I've found things like self made affirmation tapes,self hypnosis/subliminal tracks, and isochronic/binural beats to be interesting ways to affect the brain.I haven't used them nearly as long as some,so it's too early to make a judgment.But my confidence and self image really does seem to go up after listening to them.

Just a suggestion..take it or leave it :)