diniesaur wrote:
nick007 wrote:
I'm completely obsessed with my relationship & girl rite now & have been sense it started a couple months ago. I do not think it is simply infatuation because there is a lot of real substance to this. I don't know how not to have it the focal point of my thoughts but I don't think being obsessed is necessarily a bad thing. I'm a better person with her in my life because our strengths & weakness balance each other out & my relationship with her motivates me to work on improving myself to be a better person
Believe me, you don't want to become too wrapped up in one person. It's great that you help each other, but try to keep some independence and find fun things outside of the relationship. Scary things can happen if you stay obsessed for too long--the scars on my arm are proof of that.
Your absolutely rite about that. I have some nasty scars on my upper left arm from when I had a mental breakdown after things ended with my ex 7/8 years ago but I learned a lot from the experience & my relationship with
Megz is motivating me to work on myself & trying to get other things going in my life so in a way my obsession is motivating me to be less obsessed