Scanner wrote:
he said it'll hurt him but he'll know it was his fault ..
this is a red flag right here
most people even those in "open" relationships, which is what hes asking for in a nut shell
dont mention if theyll be hurt by the others actions and if u ask them "if theyll be hurt" theyll usualy say "NO"
the fact that he bothered to say anything at all is the problem, it could be an attempt to guilt trip u while he goes do his own thing
this whole issue could be the fact that he doesnt know if hes sure he wants a woman and thats the real reason for him saying he might date "other men"