I would like to thank everybody for your help and for the way you speak out. I really really appreciate this. No beating about the bush, just say what you think. If more people could do this the world would be such a better place, I'm totally sure about this.
I'd like to explain why I'm here. My initial plan was to find some adult Aspergers here in my country, sit in front of them with my videocamera on, and ask them my questions. Well, this has been impossible, so far. I asked many public/private research centers, organizations, associations to help me to get in touch with such subjects (sorry for the "subjects", I'm not looking for Guinea pigs, but for people, hope this is clear to everyone) I got only negative replies. Stuff like: "write us an email" (they never replied), "we don't have Aspergers" (weird, for an autistic association, but I could only believe them), "No way, our kids and sick and tired of being analyzed" (more likely to be true) and so on. I'm not going to give up, as a matter of fact I'm still looking for face to face encounters, but I needed to start somewhere, I had to find a way, a good way, to get personally in touch with people I could interview. And so here I am!