Can people read your body language?

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I'm not sure how often people accurately interpret my nonverbal cues. Based on experience, I'd hazard a guess that I'm more often mis-read than read accurately, though.

I think it's because I'm often sort of in my head (the world around me is too much to take in), don't respond to people outwardly unless I'm really focused on them, and I can't make my tone of voice match my intended message a lot of the time.

All that said, I could be wrong.

Thanks to all who responded! I'm eager to hear more insights or opinions!

I think generally people can't read me. My Mum says that I always seem laid back and don't outwardly show emotion. I'm a really stressed person. I have been quite seriously depressed and upset at work before and no-one will ask if anything is up.
I think sometimes if I don't like someone they pick up on a look I give them.

Re: the bit about sarcasm, I often find myself saying things that sound really sarcastic but are not meant that way.

My emotions are usually plastered all over my face. If I'm unhappy, I will look it. If I'm happy, I can't stop smiling. The problem comes when my emotions are fairly neutral. My face is often blank, and I will stare into the distance. People will ask what's on my mind. Usually when I'm staring, nothing is on my mind. Then they insist that thoughts must be running through my head when in reality it's one of the rare times thoughts aren't bouncing around.