I guess when I think about being positive, it's more about how I am with other people than just about whether I'm happy or depressed. Like dancing in a mosh pit: do you want to knock people down or help them up when they fall? Helping each other up is WAY more fun for everybody.
I can be very depressed sometimes, but still be positive, if that makes any sense.
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No dx yet ... AS=171/200,NT=13/200 ... EQ=9/SQ=128 ... AQ=39 ... MB=IntJ