madeofstars wrote:
Yep, I've been told that I "lack composure" and that I'm very intense sometimes, but I have never been called violent or intimidating (I think it's because of how small I am, people just assume that tiny people are harmless
).
Clarification on my earlier post: I don't think anyone expected violence from me. I think it has to do with the perceived intensity and a certain odd physicality I possess. I've been told I move both extremely awkwardly and also "like a bodybuilder"(despite having more pudge than muscle aside from my thighs, which are like tree trunks), which I would normally consider a dichotomous way of putting it.
Or maybe I'm wrong. I do tend to walk with my hands curled up at my sides sometimes, so maybe everyone thinks I'm about to punch someone or something.
Still, in my dating years, I was told that my intensity served me well. Apparently some women are attracted to that sort of thing.
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