Why do aspies have strong verbal skills if autistic

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because autism can happen in diferent ways.

My language development was normal but I never had strong verbal skills.
I don't only think in words but in pictures as well. That means that I have to convert these pictures into words and I experience difficulties with finding the right words sometimes. Languages have never been my thing. I don't like learning new languages at all for instance.
I hardly speak in groups, I don't always enjoy talking and I am allergic to people who talk too much in my opinion because that wears me out, annoys me and makes me suspicous. Words don't mean that much to me. Concrete action is more important as far as I'm concerned. I completely suck at social smalltalk. I can't do it and I don't want to because I find it completely meaningless and fake. This forum provides a good opportunity for me to improve my english since my first language is dutch. That is far more effective in my case than taking lessons for instance.

The reason AS and NVLD are identical in some cases is because psychiatrists are misdiagnosing NVLD as AS.

I'm closer to the NVLD profile myself.

That said, many who have AS have superior spatial AND verbal skills. There are very specific genes responsible for the ability to understand and use language, and only a few have been discovered. It's possible LFA carry a defective version of those genes or lack something else that scientists don't know about. LFA kids also show superior spatial intelligence in many cases.

IMO in "classic" AS you're going to see more people who are spatially, visually, and mathematically inclined which is closer to autism than NVLD is.

Of course you do see some who exhibit weak skills in those areas and still have the social impairments leading to an AS diagnosis.

What is your point, anyway? NVLD is similar to autism. It's often said that NVLD is a very specific type of brain damage where as autism isn't but we don't know if that's true.

People think I have "strong verbal skills". What I actually have, though, is an ability to memorize lots of vocabulary and use it in the same way I've seen it used in books, and to choose words that communicate my point very precisely.

Since this is a hard skill to master for NTs, they assume that I have good verbal skills, when in reality, I have difficulty with some aspects of language that are very basic for NT minds--colloquial speech, using the "right" set of words in the right social setting, tailoring my language to my audience. I don't bother to use different sets of words for different people and so may use very casual language in the same sentence as highly technical language. The ability to tailor language to the audience comes very, very early for NTs, long before the ability to use something like my highly technical, precise style of communication. Because I can do this technical, precise sort of speech, they assume I must obviously be capable of all the things they learned before they learned to do this, because they are "much simpler". Well, they're not--not for me.

Aspies do have language problems; mostly, though, communication problems. If you look at it in a more global fashion, the common thread for all autistics is that there are communication difficulties, in general. (And sensory and cognitive differences, but here I'm focusing on the interpersonal part of autism.)

http://juststimming.wordpress.com/2011/ ... rticulate/

I wouldn't say strong verbal skills at all, unless you mean verbal IQ on tests (but then, "normal" is just the requirement).

People with AS tend to have quite poor speech in anything other than the recitation of factual knowledge. Writing is different though, as there's time to formulate a reply without all of that stressful nonverbal and sensory stuff.