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22 Jan 2012, 2:55 am

Thats all I'm going to say. This is not towards anyone at all.

But LOLOLOL


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22 Jan 2012, 2:59 am

Glad to see someone´s learning.


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22 Jan 2012, 3:02 am

It wasn't at you. You shouldnt think that at all.

As for learning, well the bucket is still here.

Also, don't ever PM me again. I prefer my PM's to be a bit stronger, thank you.


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22 Jan 2012, 3:07 am

OliveOilMom wrote:
It wasn't at you. You shouldnt think that at all.

As for learning, well the bucket is still here.

Also, don't ever PM me again. I prefer my PM's to be a bit stronger, thank you.


Who said it was directed at me? I just said that you´ve learnt to make threads ambiguous enough to not be removed.

Already made a request to other mods to see if one of them can contact you next time


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22 Jan 2012, 3:49 am

... and what is going on in this thread...



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22 Jan 2012, 6:27 am

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... and what is going on in this thread...


You'd have to be in on it, but from what I've read it would probably be better off left private.


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22 Jan 2012, 6:37 am

Oh it's all over with now, I'm fine. I was just mad. WITH REASON. But I'm not now.


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22 Jan 2012, 11:55 am

you're very temperamental. or something like that



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22 Jan 2012, 2:12 pm

spongy wrote:
I just said that you´ve learnt to make threads ambiguous enough to not be removed.


Is that supposed to be a good thing? Making communication less clear?

A lot of fights start on forums because one person knows how to disguise their insults and/or play by the rules enough to get by with being rude. Then the person who responds in a clear, direct manner gets blamed for it.

All this does is encourage people to veil their meaning, and be sneaky or passive-aggressive. People are still going to get angry or hurt by veiled rudeness, just as much as they do by open insults.



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22 Jan 2012, 2:21 pm

dianthus wrote:
spongy wrote:
I just said that you´ve learnt to make threads ambiguous enough to not be removed.


Is that supposed to be a good thing? Making communication less clear?

A lot of fights start on forums because one person knows how to disguise their insults and/or play by the rules enough to get by with being rude. Then the person who responds in a clear, direct manner gets blamed for it.

All this does is encourage people to veil their meaning, and be sneaky or passive-aggressive. People are still going to get angry or hurt by veiled rudeness, just as much as they do by open insults.

Last night she made a thread about a particular member and she was upset because it was removed.

This thread isnt about anyone in particular. If it was about someone it would most than likely be me since she was making fun of me at the time it was posted(posts were split by hyperlexian so you are going to have to take my word for it) and Im not upset about it in any way whatsoever.

I dont think that threads like this are upsetting any member(there are several others such as send an anonymous message which sometimes contains this kind of messages... and no one has complained about those) and this lets members off steam without us having to contact them so I dont see anything wrong with this sort of threads.

You are taking my words out of context and applying them to several other situations that we may come across in the boards and every situation we may find is dealt with on its own(in a more harsh manner in most cases)



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22 Jan 2012, 2:51 pm

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You are taking my words out of context...


No I am not. I saw what happened between OOM and Fnord. Fnord was quite rude to her. If the rules allow for his behavior, but they do not allow OOM's response to it, there is something wrong here.



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22 Jan 2012, 2:53 pm

spongy wrote:
Glad to see someone´s learning.


That was bitchy. :lol: :P



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22 Jan 2012, 2:53 pm

dianthus wrote:
spongy wrote:
You are taking my words out of context...


No I am not. I saw what happened between OOM and Fnord. Fnord was quite rude to her. If the rules allow for his behavior, but they do not allow OOM's response to it, there is something wrong here.


Fnord was contacted about his behaviour and so was her because her reply was inappropriate.
In most cases we would have just contacted fnord.



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22 Jan 2012, 2:57 pm

Strange ... there's been nothing new in my inbox for over a week ...



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22 Jan 2012, 2:59 pm

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Strange ... there's been nothing new in my inbox for over a week ...

You were both publicly contacted about your behaviour on that thread.
You stopped it as soon as you read my post she decided to move on to name calling me(posts are now in sand so dont look for them).



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22 Jan 2012, 3:04 pm

Fnord wrote:
Strange ... there's been nothing new in my inbox for over a week ...


aw:(