A girl I used to like and am friends with should I tell her?

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Would have worded it better if there was more room in subject.
I used to like a girl that I am friends with and still sort of do. I do not want her to be my girlfriend because I do not entirely trust her from how she acted when I liked her. She did not actually say anything. From how she has acted she still wants to be friends with me.

I do not want to be anymore than friends with her. I sometimes feel kind of uncomfortable around her because of this. Not saying because she wants to be more, its just that I think it would be easier for me to know 100% that I don't want her to be my girlfriend if I tell her that I used to like her. But obviously that could make things very awkward. Does not help that she is very pretty.

I think there's a stronger chance then not that this would damage your relationship, it seems like a slim chance that she'd be understanding if she acted oddly or badly when you liked her.

I wouldn't say anything, but I'm just being practical, I'd rather preserve a friendship then be honest and possibly destroy it.

Since you currently don't like her now there is no reason to tell her that you used to. There is no good purpose that it will achieve.