And also, I can't remember if I was banned then, but an American Oasis-related mailing list were on about me breaking the rules when I was young, because I thought the f word would be par of the course between Oasis fans. So I was trying to fit myself into the group in a rigid way, but not being concious of the cultural differences between completely different regions.
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Double X and proud of it / male pronouns : he, him, his