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28 Feb 2012, 8:58 pm

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Why would you want to creep a women out :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:


You know what my point is. Porn can leave you feeling very lonely and unfulfilled. This goes for women who like porn but don't have a partner too.



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28 Feb 2012, 9:00 pm

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They don't if they had a brain.

Why would you want a GF when theirs porn?


Perhaps someone might want a girlfriend to help them with their poor spelling.


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28 Feb 2012, 9:01 pm

Tequila wrote:
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Why would you want to creep a women out :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:


You know what my point is. Porn can leave you feeling very lonely and unfulfilled. This goes for women who like porn but don't have a partner too.


Perhaps I should start a lonely women porn lovers thread :wink:


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28 Feb 2012, 9:03 pm

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They don't if they had a brain.

Why would you want a GF when theirs porn?


Perhaps someone might want a girlfriend to help them with their poor spelling.


english professor ?


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28 Feb 2012, 9:06 pm

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Perhaps I should start a lonely women porn lovers thread :wink:


Hop to it. You know you want to. ;)



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28 Feb 2012, 9:07 pm

Tequila wrote:
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Perhaps I should start a lonely women porn lovers thread :wink:


Hop to it. You know you want to. ;)


Well your right it's been on my mind for some time now I bet I'm not alone :wink:


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28 Feb 2012, 9:08 pm

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They don't if they had a brain.

Why would you want a GF when theirs porn?


Perhaps someone might want a girlfriend to help them with their poor spelling.



Where is the spelling mistake I do not see it.


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28 Feb 2012, 9:15 pm

aussiebloke wrote:
jagatai wrote:
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They don't if they had a brain.

Why would you want a GF when theirs porn?


Perhaps someone might want a girlfriend to help them with their poor spelling.



Where is the spelling mistake I do not see it.


Don't mind me... I'm kind of a jerk. :)

The issue was with "theirs porn.". It should have been "there is porn" or "there's porn"


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28 Feb 2012, 9:26 pm

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The main problem with 'directness' is avoiding it coming across as aggressive or predatory (some women can be like this) - that would scare most people away. Direct is great though. :)


Your quite right I asked gamer girl if I could go to her house for a sleep over and she said sure, I have not got a PM from her so I ssaume she was yanking my chian which is allright I suppose I can yank my own chain.


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28 Feb 2012, 11:27 pm

aussiebloke wrote:
Tequila wrote:
aussiebloke wrote:
Why would you want to creep a women out :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:


You know what my point is. Porn can leave you feeling very lonely and unfulfilled. This goes for women who like porn but don't have a partner too.


Perhaps I should start a lonely women porn lovers thread :wink:


Perhaps you really should take your comments to a new thread. They are off topic and rather crude.



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29 Feb 2012, 1:36 am

I tend to avoid women I like even more. If I take special care to avoid a women its because I find them highly annoying and cant deal with them, but im fairly open about my dislike for them, or I totally find them attractive and can deal with the emotions of it. So i avoid. Eh. . .either way I avoid, im totally not helpful.



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29 Feb 2012, 10:33 am

Tequila wrote:
aussiebloke wrote:
Why would you want a GF when theirs porn?


Porn can't cook you awesome dinners.


Porn also can't swallow.



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29 Feb 2012, 1:18 pm

They will give you items they think would be significant to you (which may include tampons, if he thinks it would make the relationship go better) and will talk to you.

In seriousness though I show interest in a girl by being very friendly and showing empathy to the best of my abilites, giving quite a bit of gifts and spending time doing things with her (these are planned but have not surfaced.)

Really, any large amount of time with an aspergian is a good sign he really wants to make it work.


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29 Feb 2012, 4:48 pm

They do it by staring at her cleavage or her ass?



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29 Feb 2012, 4:54 pm

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I'd say he's shy.

You need to communicate with him and see each other more then just during commute.

I think he would open up to you as you spend more time together but if you have feelings for him you have to break tradition and ask him out as he may not have the courage to do so.


I'd say she's misunderstanding him and should ignore him.



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29 Feb 2012, 5:29 pm

If there's a girl I'm interested in, I'll always try to befriend her. I know I put myself endangered of being "friend-zoned" but that's the only way I can show a girl I like her and that's the only way I can socialize with a girl. I could never ask out strangers, I'm definitely not a guy who shouts out compliments at girls. I always make it known how much I respect them as a person and would never do anything to make them feel uncomfortable. I think for any aspergers guy, if he is your friend and enjoys your presence, chances are he likes you but won't be able to admit it.
I know from experience as there's a girl I like very much but because she's six years older than me, my chances of dating her aren't good but my feelings for her will not change, I still secretly wish we could be together. I sometimes wonder myself if she has any idea how I really feel about her.


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