I think we should be able to ifwe want. I'm happy when I'm with my GF, I told her of my AS early on and she seems very tolerant of my actions. Not sure if she is actively remembering that or just tolerant but I like her. In short, yes we can have problems but some of us have a happy current and others (maybe me, no way of telling) have a happy ending.
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bruinsy33 wrote:
Like any kind of relationship I think people with AS should choose a partner who has many of the characteristics that they have. I am not a believer in ''opposites attract''.
This is very true. My first GF had some similar interests but was a personality opposite. Very few people knew I went out with her and it didn't last very long. I chose to ignore it happened when possible, only a mistake in my mind. So to 99% of people I know my current GF is my only one, she is not an opposite and we attract well.