Is it possible to reconcile my religious beliefs?

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I have this issue to a point, but I don't care about it really. I figure God will just take care of it in time, my having a wife and all. I don't get why people like....care so much, about finding "someone." My problem I guess is my standards are very much too specific, and I shut myself out of a lot of relationships just out of fear of them turning sour before I can start them.

Your Christian beliefs, though, most people I've met don't really think too differently really than you. I'm on the opposite spectrum, young earth Creationist, much more literal with the Bible, etc. Also I'm Orthodox (well not technically yet, but yeah) so that makes Protestants and Catholics think you're weird. If you don't care about the religiosity of the other person, then simply don't bring up yours in conversation until asked, and definitely don't put it on dating sites and the like. I think people would be more scared off that you're asserting your views, as it just seems weird to assert your views, especially when your views are sorta broad like that. Usually by asserting religious views, people view it as exclusionary on your part. So for you and religion, you'd probably be best off with a "don't ask, don't tell" approach to it. For me, that doesn't fly, but yeah.

For me personally, I can't see myself dating anyone not Christian, and I'd likely want someone with more conservative viewpoints like myself, so that narrows down my dating pool a lot, but it's just the way things are.

In the end, it just comes down to, people who like you will like you, and people who don't, won't. If it wasn't your religious views making people not like you, it'd be political views, anything really.

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As far as commonalities, uhm, well, basically, what I've gathered is this. Commonalities are good to a point, but it's more toleration that's the key. For me also, in people in general, opposites are attractive to me, a female version of me sounds insane really. Like I have enough problems dealing with me, so two people as crazy as myself sounds like it'd be a sitcom or something. Basically, what hyperlexian was saying about chemistry is right. It's not so much commonalities as much as it is "do you get along?" For me, it'd be pretty outlandish to ask for a girl who works on cars, ice skates, listens to jpop and eurobeat, and goes dumpster diving, but all I can ask for is a girl who will tolerate that in me, and whatever her interests are, I'd have to reciprocate with toleration. But then there's things that are irreconcilable differences, which the religion thing is for me. Keep in mind, all my advice is theoretical crap, having never had a girlfriend ever.

I'm with hyperlexian and Fnord on this one. You're never going to see eye to eye on all subjects with another person. Unless your partner is extremely orthodox and lives by a strict religious code that affects all areas of life, I don't see why religious differences should be more of a divider than different food tastes or different favorite TV shows.

Just do your thing in terms of religion and let your partner do hers. When the topic comes up in conversation, just agree to disagree and move on. I'm a liberal atheist, but if I was in a relationship with a conservative Christian (I have been for a while in Second Life), I'd simply avoid this topic and focus on other things. I wouldn't try to deconvert anybody.

ToS: If she's not a Christian, you can always try to convert her.

having a different faith does not necessarily mean drama. it's possible to respect each other.