Prof_Pretorius wrote:
Learn to put up with it. My experience is that if you say ANYTHING the least bit out of the ordinary realm, it can and will be used against you at a later date (Like when they terminate your contract). That said, I'd watch to see if she does this to others. Maybe that's just her 'style'. I'd also watch to see if she does this when others are around, or only when it's the two of you. It's an old school intimidation trick, she can pat you on the shoulder like yer a good doggy, but WATCH OUT if you ever try to return the favor ! !! !! !! !!
If she's the boss, let her grope you all she wants, as long as she gives you good reviews.
She isn't my boss, just the person with whom I work the closest. But she does review my work (and I get good scores). As for whether she does this to other people: I have no idea. I'll have to watch. And I wouldn't ever try to "return the favour" -- since I don't like being touched, touching other people is the last thing I'd do.
Thanks for all the responses, they've given me something to think about. (And by all means if anyone else has anything else to add, go right ahead.)
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