BanjoGirl wrote:
The aspie girl that wants protection and someone "to lead" her in the social situations will search a strong NT guy, the aspie girl that wants to protect or at least have a partner with similar traits as her and doesn't have the necessity to improve her social skills, will search aspies or introverted NT's.
I am definitely the girl who wants someone to lead me. I get so anxious about social situations (and life generally) that I really need someone who is calm, relaxed and laid back. It is possible that there are Aspie guys like that of course, I have never had a relationship with an Aspie so I can't really judge.
My boyfriend is NT and I don't mind if he doesn't understand me (I feel that is a lot to ask of anyone frankly, Aspie or not) I just want someone who will look after me. Because I don't have a lot of friends I am quite emotionally dependent on my boyfriend so it is important that he is happy and able to give me quite a lot of emotional support.
If I was single I wouldn't rule out anyone just because they were an Aspie or an NT.