No, I like using a spoon. Not just any spoon mind you, a certain special heavy silver spoon I bought just for me.
I do eat normal stuff with my fingers, like chicken, ribs, crawdads, shrimp, bacon, etc. But I actually have the opposite sensory thing going on. If I was very, very hungry and something like mac and cheese was put in front of me with no spoon or fork, I would probably not eat it unless I was at the point where I was very weak and feeling very bad from low blood sugar.
You know that Campbells soup in that drinky can thingy? Well I was sick once, a few years ago and my mother got me some cream of broccolli soup like I requested but got it in that can. I couldnt eat it. No. I cannot drink soup from a can. She (being borderline) got very angry at me because I didn't appreciate that she had bought the more expensive version of it rather than just the can that you heat in a bowl, and called me the spawn of Satan and left me there, sick, in the bed, and with just the drinky soup thingy.
I did not drink the soup.
It's a "cant" thing for me rather than a "wont". Social acceptance or protocol or manners has nothing to do with it unless I'm in public and with certain people. It's just a "cant" thing for me.
I also cannot eat with plastic cutlery when I'm under stress. Oh, at a happy picnic or something, I can. But when I'm upset, I just CANNOT do it.
This can pose a problem in jail.
Once, I was in there for a little over two weeks waiting on somebody to pull their heads out of their asses and bond me out. They gave us plastic silverware to eat our "food" with. I couldn't use it and requested just a real spoon. Nope. They couldn't for safety reasons they said. It was me and one other girl who was about 22 and I felt awefully sorry for her and she cried a lot. I'm going to take the spoon they finally give me, ruin it by filing it into a knife and cut the girl who I keep listening to and letting cry to me and encouraging her to get help? Really? Only two of us were in there!! ! Theres gonna be a riot between the housewife and the crazy girl? I don't think so.
Finally when I just refused to get out of bed for breakfast (at 4am) because I was just too weak and refused to be taken to the doctor about it (because they take you in jail clothes in a cop car and the doctor is my two houses up neighbor who watches football with my husband, so, duh, no!) they gave in and let me have a real spoon.
This was before I even heard of AS.
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I'm giving it another shot. We will see.
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